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Tattoos: Ancient art meets modern workplace
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Tattoos have left a historical footprint worldwide in many cultures (see Oetzi the ice man) and should be looked upon, beyond the workplace, as self-expression. Many old-timers feel that tattoos are inappropriate and should be covered in the workplace, but some Fortune 500 companies (Coca-Cola and Starbucks) have become more open to the idea of body art (through tattoos and piercings), realizing that truly inventive professionals are not only creative from 9 to 5.
From the employer’s perspective, you only get one chance to make a first impression with clients at tradeshows and with investors. How can the employer send Bob Smith (with tattoos from shoulder to wrist) to meet the company’s prospective clients and think it will be a wise move for the company’s bottom line?
But from the employee’s point-of-view, they wonder why do employers care what I have on my body? It does not affect my creativity or professionalism, which is why the company is paying me. What I do in my personal time is my choice.
We live in a free society, but some managers want to put boundaries on what is tasteful in terms of self-expression. The law is not necessarily on the tattooed employee’s side. The Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) says that dress codes and appearance policies can be enforced in the workplace, as long as the employer doesn’t discriminate based on a person’s race, color, religion, age, national origin or gender.
Have a tattoo, piercing or green-colored hair? There is a Web site called The Modified Mind Employee Line to help those creative souls who are looking for work and finding it tough out there with conservative employers.
Before embarking upon any tattoo work, review your employer’s dress and appearance codes. After uncovering this information, determine the best balance between your career and your body art. Even if employers are OK with tattoos, some customers may be more conservative. Companies typically have to look at things in regard to the influence on customers. If sales decrease because customers are not comfortable with your body art - right or wrong - the company has to put bottom line first.
Have you ever been fired from a job or not been hired because of your tattoos or other examples of bodily self-expression?
SEND US PHOTOS OF YOUR TATTOOS or voice your opinion on other people’s tattoos.
Comments
By Jeff
June 24, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this
My own tatoo is easily hidden (‘tis on the inside of my right ankle), and any others I get will be similarly easy to hide.
Only exception to that general rule for myself is if I ever replace my tungsten wedding ring with a tatoo wedding ring. (Something I’ve seen on a few people and like, but don’t know if I’ll ever do.)
And in general, I think most offices go with the same rule I do: If your general work wardrobe easily covers the tatoo, they typically don’t care if you have one or not. If, however, your work attire does NOT cover the tatoo, then they start caring. (And btw: Technically this is probably true about unusual hair coloring as well. Somehow, I just don’t see CocaCola caring if someone has blue hair below the belt as long as s/he does NOT have blue hair above the shoulders! :) )
By JD
June 24, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this
The business world does have a right to expect professionalism - how seriously would you take a consultant who had a tattoo on his or her face? That being said, there are lots of places on the body for the “creative” (using the blog’s descriptor, not mine - I don’t think body art is in any way indicative of creativity) to use. You could have Tony the Tiger covering your whole back and no one at work would ever need to know unless you told them. I’ve worked in professional environments where VPs, Directors, and such actually bragged about their tattoos. But could you see them, heck no! You’d never guess, and that’s the point.
By sunny
June 24, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this
Some tatoos, need to be covered at all time some are just to nasty to be seen. I think if you can cover it please do, everybody don’t want to see them. Please respect the your work place.
By Harold
June 24, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this
I have tow tatts at present.Let me tell you about them. One is concealed and the other is visible. The 1st is a symbol. The symbol that Prince used while his name was in excile.You know..when he was the artist formely know as Prince. That weird symbol. It’s on my right buttocks. I stayed with all black, as coloration would have been tacky in my estimation. It’s kinda stretching some as my body parts a no longer as firm as they once were but I still thinks it’s cool. The 2nd is visible and on my forearm. My employer is not crazy about it, and has remarked. However, he has not threatened my job. It’s a woody wood pecker holding a rebel flag. Some find it’s tasteless but I find it’s form of self expression.
By Duluth
June 24, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this
I personally think tatoos are hideous. I cannot stand to see them, and don’t know why anyone in their right mind would mark up their body permanently. Especially on women, that’s just beyond gross. Makes me think of trailer park trash.
By bobbalouie
June 24, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this
I think God was really creative when He made my body, and I’m an extremely creative person myself…. I don’t think my body needs any extra decoration; my creativity speaks for itself.
By Sheeple
June 24, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this
Yes it’s so creative to go sit in a chair and pay someone to put “artwork”, use that term very very loosely, on your body. Not just anybody can do it, oh wait, yes they can. You aren’t special, you aren’t creative, you are simply a by product of Capitalism. You paid someone to perform a service and they did. Wow. Aren’t you the creative one.
By gateacher
June 24, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this
Duluth: My sentiments EXACTLY! I have never seen a tattoo that I think is ‘cool’…they are an immediate turn-off! Its like spray-painting graffiti on a Porche.
By queen
June 24, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this
Tatoos are great if they have meaning to you and are not obvious or are hidden well when they need to be. Not sure what the big deal is even if everyone can see them. It’s pure choice. Same goes true for haircut or color, clothing, etc.
By queen
June 24, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this
Tattos are great if they have meaning to you and are not obvious or are hidden well when they need to be. Not sure what the big deal is even if everyone can see them. It’s pure choice. Same goes true for haircut or color, clothing, etc.
By Beauty of it
June 24, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this
Sheeple, get a grip. It’s America. Freedom of choice. While you obviously have a disdain for tatto’s Harold has an semi - obsession. Here lies the beauty of our society. Freedom of choice. You are able to sulk, scoff,and mock while Harold may celebrate.
By God Creation
June 24, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this
unfortunately I have tattoos myself ,one) on my arm like barb wire, I regret getting them cause it does’nt benefits me at all I don’t like it.(Help)… I worked in an office environment.. I’m not allowed to wear anything that would show it,,which I dont mind ..I have a few more somewhere on my body ,I wish I can get it all remove!!!!!
By Dan
June 24, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this
I am with you beauty, just remember, the hiring manager also has freedom of choice of who they hire, it has to go both ways
By T
June 24, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this
I have several tattoos, which can be covered while at work. I do have a big one on my back, which I have to be careful of when choosing a shirt to wear. But it has a very speacial meaning to me. I went though a very tough time in my life, God brought me through it. Therefore, I have a cross on my upper back to remind me that he is always watching my back. I think as long as I can show it to who I want, and hide it from who I want. It is my business.
By T
June 24, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this
I have several tattoos, which can be covered while at work. I do have a big one on my back, which I have to be careful of when choosing a shirt to wear. But it has a very speacial meaning to me. I went though a very tough time in my life, God brought me through it. Therefore, I have a cross on my upper back to remind me that he is always watching my back. I think as long as I can show it to who I want, and hide it from who I want. It is my business.
By Becky
June 24, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this
Simple, if you don’t like them, don’t get one…No one is holding a gun to your head..I don’t like them either & don’t have any, but just about everyon ein my family has one..More power to them..
By D
June 24, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this
I have tattoos. I love them. I honestly don’t care what anyone else thinks about them. What matters most is how I feel about myself. I am smart enough to know that they don’t project a professional appearance, so I keep them covered at work. Frankly I get tired of people asking me about them. I think is several decades down the line they won’t be so taboo.
By Tricia
June 24, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this
Finally! Someone actually knows how to spell. People, please don’t comment if you can’t even spell the subject word. It’s tattoo (not, “tatoo”, not “tatto”). It’s hard to take your opinion seriously. BTW, I’m a 49 year old professional woman who is a wife and mother and I have three tattoos which I like very much. No regrets. I don’t judge people on whether or not they have tattoos either.
By Keeping It Real
June 25, 2008 8:22 AM | Link to this
When going for a job interview, nothing in this world shouts: “HEY, I’M A COMPLETE DUMB@$$!” like a neck tattoo.
Word.
By Bob
June 25, 2008 8:32 AM | Link to this
Tattoos are very helpful.
If viewable, they greatly simplify the the interview evaluation and hiring process.
Ear rings on men or piercings on anyone are are equally helpful for assisting in the decision making process.
By DARNELL
June 25, 2008 8:44 AM | Link to this
TATTOOS ARE JUST THE RACIST SLAVE MASTERS WAY OF BRANDING THEIR PROPERTY. YOU HATERS WILL JUST USE TATTOOS AS A WAY OF TRYING TO JUSTIFY YOUR RACISM IN NOT GIVING A BLACK MAN A GOOD JOB THAT HE DESERVES!!! WHEN OBAMA BECOME PRESIDENT HE GOING TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT AND TAKE AMERIKKKA BACK FOR THE BLACK MAN!!!!!
By HRM
June 25, 2008 8:54 AM | Link to this
Q: If you are so proud of your tattoos, then why cover them up in the workplace?
A: I am embararassed to let my employer & co-workers know what a trashy idiot I am!
PS - Your employer is not stupid - they know you have tattoos - even if hidden. Regardless of what you believe, it does effect your career advancement. You can be held back and/ or terminated for your appearance - EEOC laws don’t matter. :)
By Bob
June 25, 2008 9:07 AM | Link to this
Spelling, diction and grammar are also helpful tools in the evaluation of candidates, along with attitude and demeanor.
By The Bossman
June 25, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this
As an employer there are time I must make decisions based on my gut feelings. When I see a person all inked up I can’t help but think this person is capable of making irrational decisions. You also have to be careful about the image you want youe company to convey to the outside world. If i can’t see your ink, that’s fine, if I can see it and you’re tied for the job with someone without the ink, you’ll lose out. As the boss, the decisions is mine.
By Squeezie
June 25, 2008 9:14 AM | Link to this
LOL at Darnell.
By My3Kids
June 25, 2008 9:27 AM | Link to this
I have a small amount of tattoos. I’m proud of them all. They are dedicated to my freedom, my children, and my parents. I did not get them to be different or to be creative. I got them because I wanted them.
When I got my first one, there was nothing in the company I worked for at the time handbook about them. I had it on my ankle. At that office, I wore slacks almost every day because of the location of my desk and I just happened to my leg a certain way and my boss saw it. She was ok with it, actually 2 of the 3 bosses I had were ok with it. The other one I thought was going to have a cornanary.
I have never hid any of my tattoos from anyone when they met me. Well, some are in locations you can not see them unless I am wearing a bathing suit or something.
I have an awesome career right now and when I interviewed, I was wearing a suit with a skirt. My ankle was showing. I was offered the job on the spot. However, it wasn’t until a month later that my boss realized I had a tattoo. I told it is just one of a few I have. I asked if it was a problem. He said no. No one here (his bosses) would ever have an issue with me having them. I have one on my shoulder that shows with certain shirts. My boss has since hired another guy here that has his arm done (shoulder to just below the elbow) and I don’t think anyone has said anything to him either.
However, I have more respect for my family than my husbands. I did hide my first one from my aunt. My daughter told her I had one. She laughed and said I was just like my daddy. My husbands family cringe everytime they see a spec of mine. That’s their opinion.
If I need to for a client or a customer, I will cover my tattoos. Its not a big deal to do it.
By Teacher
June 25, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this
I am a teacher and I have 3 tattoos and I am in the process of picking out my next one. I think that it is my choice whether or not I decorate my body. I do not flaunt my art to my students, but if they happen to see them and ask me about them I do tell them the meaning. All of my art has meaning to me. I think if you don’t like them don’t get them and don’t judge those who do.
By deegee
June 25, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this
When you see someone all inked up there is a good chance that the individual has some piercings in some interesting places. Be careful at the water fountain and with coffee cups and utensils. You have no idea how much hepatitis C is floating around out there.
By A
June 25, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this
My boss thinks mine are cool!! I have three and they all have meaning to me. No regrets at all. I agree however that some people get carried away and tats don’t look good when they continue down your arms or legs.
By travis
June 25, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this
wow, it amazes me on how narrow minded some of you are. if a person wants a tatto on their body, so be it!! if it is gross or inappropriate, don’t show it at work, keep it covered. i have several tatt that are inconspicuous.
Don’t pass judgement on those who choose or choose not to be tatted up.
remember there was a time in society where women couldn’t wear pants or vote, whites couldnot marry blacks, blacks had to sit on the back of the bus, children worked in sweat shops for 12-14 hours, people who were mentally deficient were hidden in institutions…that was when we were a closed minded society. please don’t pass judgement on people.
By catkgm
June 25, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this
I have one tattoo on the back of my lower neck (which can easily be covered by my hair or clothes) and two body piercings. Personally I’d prefer more ink than holes. But hey…for everyone else…if you don’t like it then don’t look at it. It’s not your body. I do work in a corporate office environment and I do plan on getting more tattoos. Of course they will be places that can easily be covered in business attire. …hey, I have bills to pay…
By Kincaid
June 25, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this
I got my first tattoo about 5 or 6 years ago (and I’m 34 now). Each one of my tattoos is unique and not something you can find on the walls of a tattoo shop. They were all hand drawn by either me or my artist and are reflections of who I am as a person. One is a memorial to my parents, another is my family crest and another is reflective of my history as a “computer geek”. They are all easily hidden since they are on my lower legs and in no way detract from my ability to perform in a professional workplace. I am the senior guy for my team, have advanced quite well within the company I work for and actually have coworkers who, once they see the tattoos, comment that they think they are really cool and wished they had something they could come up with to get done on themselves. It’s about personal expression and if you don’t like them, I say just don’t look at them or get one. Each person is free to make their own choices in life and just because you might not agree doesn’t mean that everyone should share your sentiments. To each his own…
By Rick
June 25, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this
I have two tattoos; each is so important that I considered for years which version of the symbol I wanted and where to place it. One is well hidden (below the belt): a penguin. The other is centered between my shoulder blades: the Eye of Horus. Both represent Good Fortune. My bosses know that I am decorated, and they are quite interested in my thoughts, as they are Asian and understand different belief systems.
I am in the midst of considering where my third will be, a representation of a Nordic Rune. So, yes, I believe in body decorations. My God gave me my form, to take care of. I am honoring my God in doing just that.
By Damon
June 25, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this
I have 4, never want them removed as they show who I am on the inside to those who do see them. Why do I keep them hidden you may ask, well its simple really I had mine put in places where a short sleeve shirt can cover them up, its called a work line. My tattoo’s are for me, if someone else sees them so be it, I’ll answer any questions they have about them, but they are mine and hidden because well, really cant go anywhere nowadays without a shirt on. I am a professional and when they find out I have tattoo’s they find it rather interesting that someone of my education, and professional level actually has tattoo’s. They are great conversation starters and very good ways to break the ice in most all initial meetings.
By Michelle
June 25, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this
I’m sorry, some chick had a fist sized tattoo above the top of her blouse when I went to the Bank the other day. TACKY, TACKY, TACKY!
I just think that if you have a tattoo, it doesn’t need to be for everyone’s viewing pleasure at work.
And yes, I do have a tattoo and it is ALWAYS covered at work!
By HRM
June 25, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this
Oh, yes - FREEDOM is such a wonderful thing. You certainly do have the freedom to express yourself with tattoos. Thank You for marking yourselves so vividly, it makes it so much easier to identify the human trash of society. I also have the FREEDOM to express my opinions about the vile garbage I am forced to look at. Yes - Thank You for FREEDOM.
By Trailer Park Trash
June 25, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this
I am the CEO of my own company and have two tattoos, one on each arm. I am getting my third tomorrow on my left leg. They all mean a lot to me because they speak of who I am. It is art. I designed two of them and borrowed the third from an organization I strongly associate with.
Ink it up. What has God got to do with it anyhow?
By sw
June 25, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this
I have no issue with tattoos. I always wanted one, but I have never seen anything that I thought was so good that I would like to look at it forever. Also, if I ever got one I would never want anyone to see it…I don’t care what anyone says most people’s first reaction to seeing a tattoo is “TRASH”. Like for instance, the guy with the woody wood pecker holding a rebel flag…really?!?
By LLL
June 25, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this
FYI- Starbucks has NOT become more open to body art as stated in the article. A friend of mine just got a job at Starbucks and was told she had to take her nose ring out. Even Fortune 500 companies realize that body are takes away some of the professionalism of their employees. Tattoos are fine, just remember to put them somewhere they can be covered out when appropriate.
By sw
June 25, 2008 1:13 PM | Link to this
I have no issue with tattoos. I always wanted one, but I have never seen anything that I thought was so good that I would like to look at it forever. Also, if I ever got one I would never want anyone to see it…I don’t care what anyone says most people’s first reaction to seeing a tattoo is “TRASH”. Like for instance, the guy with the woody wood pecker holding a rebel flag…really?!?
By Open Minded
June 25, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this
Funny, Just about all the people writing in this blog that are totally against tattoo’s in any way have at least one, if not more, grammatical errors in their statements, disproving your theory that you are only intelligent it you DON’T get a tattoo. (How did you ever come to that conclusion?)
I am PROUD of my tattoo, it is just about always hidden, I got it for ME, and it means something to ME. If I choose to share it with someone whether they are a co-worker or not, that is my decision. I am in management for a very high profile company and am responsible for hiring in my department. Not ONCE have I interviewed someone and immediately judged them if they had a tattoo visible. I guess it’s just a level of maturity and an ability to not judge people too quickly. Good thing I don’t look at all people WITHOUT a tattoo and judge them as pretentious, stuck up butt heads. You have all been brainwashed and I feel sorry for your inability to see beauty in ALL THINGS! GET A CLUE!!!
By AlohaVampire
June 25, 2008 1:25 PM | Link to this
I have ink. I keep it covered at work. Most of my co-workers don’t even know they’re there. That’s good.
I didn’t see any mentions above about “tramp stamps”. Those can be visible almost any time.
I can’t stand a pretty girl with a butterfly tattoo just above her butt. I don’t understand it. In my personal opinion I think yuck.
Ankles and back of shoulders are were ink belongs on a woman.
By Open Minded
June 25, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this
Funny, Just about all the people writing in this blog that are totally against tattoo’s in any way have at least one, if not more, grammatical errors in their statements, disproving your theory that you are only intelligent it you DON’T get a tattoo. (How did you ever come to that conclusion?)
I am PROUD of my tattoo, it is just about always hidden, I got it for ME, and it means something to ME. If I choose to share it with someone whether they are a co-worker or not, that is my decision. I am in management for a very high profile company and am responsible for hiring in my department. Not ONCE have I interviewed someone and immediately judged them if they had a tattoo visible. I guess it’s just a level of maturity and an ability to not judge people too quickly. Good thing I don’t look at all people WITHOUT a tattoo and judge them as pretentious, stuck up butt heads. You have all been brainwashed and I feel sorry for your inability to see beauty in ALL THINGS! GET A CLUE!!!
By Willie
June 25, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this
Remember! If its vile and disgusting, the liberals are for it..it is called freedom of expression for them. However if your freedom of expression is in conflict with their freedom of expression, then your freedom of expression is conservative oppression. VILE and DISGUSTING!
By GTbuzz
June 25, 2008 1:32 PM | Link to this
Darnell obviously has “IDIOT” tattooed on his forehead….
By GTbuzz
June 25, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this
Well put, Willie.
By Tricia S
June 25, 2008 1:38 PM | Link to this
OpenMinded - That’s so funny. I was thinking the same thing. It’s the tattooed group on this blog who uses the proper grammar and the non-tattooed who prove themselves to be ignorant and uneducated.
HRM - I bet you’re one ugly sucker.
By TattooYou
June 25, 2008 1:43 PM | Link to this
Sheeple,
You are really showing your ignorance. While you are right in the sense that anyone can put ink on a needle and mark skin permanently, not everyone creates art when they do it.
I have a large cross on my back which I got after a very difficult time in my life. It carries a deep meaning and whenever someone sees it(which outside of my wife isnt often)they are blown away by the detail and what the artist was able to create with black and white ink.
I would spend a bit more time thinking before typing next time. Not all tattoos are meaningful. Some people just get images that they like to look at. That is fine too. For those of us whose ink marks moments in our lives or tells a story about us through art on our skin, there is deep meaning. To us, you are talking about something of which you have no understanding or comprehension.
TattooYou
By TattooYou
June 25, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this
Sheeple,
You are really showing your ignorance. While you are right in the sense that anyone can put ink on a needle and mark skin permanently, not everyone creates art when they do it.
I have a large cross on my back which I got after a very difficult time in my life. It carries a deep meaning and whenever someone sees it(which outside of my wife isnt often)they are blown away by the detail and what the artist was able to create with black and white ink.
I would spend a bit more time thinking before typing next time. Not all tattoos are meaningful. Some people just get images that they like to look at. That is fine too. For those of us whose ink marks moments in our lives or tells a story about us through art on our skin, there is deep meaning. To us, you are talking about something of which you have no understanding or comprehension.
TattooYou
By WBA
June 25, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this
So glad to hear that mister “CEO” has two tats and he is getting another for the next “board” meeting. CEO of What?
By TattooYou
June 25, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this
Sheeple,
You are really showing your ignorance. While you are right in the sense that anyone can put ink on a needle and mark skin permanently, not everyone creates art when they do it.
I have a large cross on my back which I got after a very difficult time in my life. It carries a deep meaning and whenever someone sees it(which outside of my wife isnt often)they are blown away by the detail and what the artist was able to create with black and white ink.
I would spend a bit more time thinking before typing next time. Not all tattoos are meaningful. Some people just get images that they like to look at. That is fine too. For those of us whose ink marks moments in our lives or tells a story about us through art on our skin, there is deep meaning. To us, you are talking about something of which you have no understanding or comprehension.
TattooYou
By RUChinaDoll
June 25, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this
Damon I think I’m in love. lol
By Randy
June 25, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this
I used to work with a young woman who had a cartoon character tattooed on her neck, where I couldn’t possibly ever be hidden. Could never understand that.
Other wise, I’m in favor of visible thongs, cleavage, tramp stamps, as long as the women are hot.
By Kyle
June 25, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this
Tattoos have no place in the workplace. Keep them hidden at all times. That said, tattoos look hideous and usually ARE worn by mostly white trailer trash or 1 step above that economic strata. If you ever go to a festival or concert and see a tattooed woman, she is usually drunk, chain smoking, is missing teeth and cussing every 5 seconds. Nascar fan comes to mind.
By Jogger
June 25, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this
My husband has 2 and is getting another one Friday. The one on his chest is not sexy, etc. The colors are gross (its a black panther on a mtn top). The other is sci-fi knife on his left shoulder. The one Friday will be a memorial cross for his sister who died this past April.
I myself do not have any tatoos-have thought about- but, nah
By Layla
June 25, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this
Wow, people! I guess everyone that adorns their body with jewelry of their choosing is trashy??? What about painting your nails? Must be a sign of stupidity!!! Color your hair? Showing individual taste and freedom of choice? NONSENSE!
Seriously, tattoo hating hypocrites, when do we bust out the burkhas so YOU’RE happy with what you have to look at?
Oh, but wait…. I bet you do all of the things listed above… decorate YOUR body in a way that is pleasing TO YOU.
Most of you have the grammar skills of a three year old, and that’s being generous. So, I would consider that next time you call someone else trailer park trash or a dumb redneck.
By Hot Cantonian
June 25, 2008 2:03 PM | Link to this
Kyle: You sound really sexy. Bet those pants of yours are pulled up to your underarms, pennies are in your loafers, and this blog is the epitome of your social life.
By The Truth
June 25, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this
You can’t judge a book by the cover. One of my neighbors is this fun-loving “GOTH” with arms covered in tattoos. The person is a hard core, conservative Catholic that shuns the “alternative” lifestyles in the neighborhood. At first glance, you have one opinion, but after getting to know the person (gasp!), you realize that it truly isn’t the outside appearance that matters - its what happens in thier heads and hearts.
By jeed
June 25, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this
We live in a free society ””””””””””’
We do?
By Rat-ta-tat-tat
June 25, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this
I have a full tattoo sleeve, wear short sleeves and work at an Investment Firm running a mutual fund, hedge fund and high networth individual accounts.
Who care what you look like if you excel in your job and make tons of money for the firm! Money changes people’s perception very easily.
By Crystal Marie
June 25, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this
I am a mother of five who is happily married. My boyfriend thinks I’m very hot and loves all of my tattos. My latest is a bed of roses in my lower region so now any guy that Im intimate with can say hes done it in a flower garden. At the same time, I took my 18 year old to get tattoed and she loves her too.
By Matt
June 25, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this
The internet makes you stupid.
By The Captain
June 25, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this
Honestly, I think morbidly obese people and those ridiculous lacquered hairstyles can be just as visually unpleasant as tattoos. I have a few, one you can see (a fluer-de-lis) and the others you can’t. Nothing I’d be ashamed to show my daughter. I get it that some people can’t handle someone else having a tattoo. So in a way, if your job requires interaction with a paying customer, then the company should have the right to insist on visual requirements such as covering tattoos, certain clothing, makeup, hair, jewelry, even your percieved attractiveness. Believe it or not, studies have shown that most people will buy more from someone they believe is attractive. One study even saw that, in the reverse, the one area that did not work was with people who identified themselves as “very overweight” bought LESS from people that everyone ELSE considered attractive. I find many (not all) tattoos interesting. I would talk to a girl with a full-facial tattoo, and depending on the art, may find her pretty, but wouldn’t hire her as a cashier, except in a tattoo parlor.
By Ima Too Trashy
June 25, 2008 2:27 PM | Link to this
I love my tatoos because they make me look trashy and sleazy which other trashy folks like. I think the professional athletes are the trashiest and sleaziest people around and most admired with all their money and punk looks.
By truthbtold
June 25, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this
It takes a “Simple” mindset to willingly allow someone to draw on you. Have you ever heard of drawing paper? No work of art is worthy enough to be permanently etched in your flesh! There are people with Class, and people without Class.Just like there is a certain stigma concerning people who live in trailer parks or the ghetto. There is a certain stigma concerning people who feel a sense of value from wearing a tattoo.
By m
June 25, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this
one thing i find quite funny? hypocritical? in these comments are the people who say, “i have X amount of tattooes and i’m very proud of them”, but then follow it up with, “but i keep them hidden..” or some other pathetic comment.
you know what? i have 5 tattooes, 2 of which are visible - right on my wrists. the other 3 are in places i wanted to have them done, not because i have this fear of workplace repercussions, but because that’s where i wanted them. i’m not “hiding” anything and they aren’t vile and disgusting, just felt right to be in those particular spots.
please, people, if you’re proud of your tattooes, don’t say that you keep them hidden….just say they’re in spots you wanted or dont’ say anything at all about location. seriously, it says to me that you are ashamed when you “hide” them.
By Pat
June 25, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this
I ask why there is always a negative association with a tattoo. Every thought that the other connotations of getting ink could be a willingness to commit, to think long-term, to communicate on multiple levels, introspection. All those traits sound straight out of an HR handbook and are all typical of the decision to get a tattoo.
By wolf
June 25, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this
I run my own company and I have tattoos. Neither of mine can be seen unless I’m shirtless. I’d have more if it weren’t for uptight morons who judge everyone before they even have the slightest interaction with them. BTW, I live in a gated community and make more money than most of my high-powered corporate types in my neighborhood. Oh yeah, I also have a master’s degree.
I have a theory that the more closed minded the person, the less successful they tend to be. This forum has produced a ton of evidence in favor of my theory. Thanks haters.
By nettie
June 25, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this
That guy Darnell is out of his mind! What in the world is he talking about. I think the ink from his tats has gone to his head.
By Dave
June 25, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this
Beauty of it - which also means the “freedom” to let the person with an unsightly tatoo keep on walking…
By Trill
June 25, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this
Donnell I have read your comments on several different subjects. None of the comments are relevant and all you are doing is fueling racism in America. It is because of people like you that racism still exists… you bigot.
By M C
June 25, 2008 2:54 PM | Link to this
So it’s ok to paint a flower on your fingernail or toenail but God forbid if you paint something on your body…..
All of you that choose to dog those of us with tattoo’s are just jealous little a*******holes. You only wish you had the balls to get one.
To you MR DEGREE…. you’re going to catch HEP C from your mamma before you catch it from a water fountain.
By M C
June 25, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this
So it’s ok to paint a flower on your fingernail or toenail but God forbid if you paint something on your body…..
All of you that choose to dog those of us with tattoo’s are just jealous little a*******holes. You only wish you had the balls to get one.
To you MR DEGREE…. you’re going to catch HEP C from your mamma before you catch it from a water fountain.
By Tat Girl
June 25, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this
I have 5 tats. All, except one, are hidden 99.9% of the time. The one that’s sometimes visible of typically only partially visible to others. It usually takes them a few minutes and then someone will ask “is that a tattoo”. I’ve had them so long and they are just part of me I don’t think about them until asked. Everything could use discretion. So don’t put them on display.
By HRM
June 25, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this
*I have a full tattoo sleeve, wear short sleeves and work at an Investment Firm running a mutual fund, hedge fund and high networth individual accounts.
Who care what you look like if you excel in your job and make tons of money for the firm! Money changes people’s perception very easily.*
LMAO … that fantasy you have of yourself is hillarious ~ the tattoo ink has litterally rotted your brain!
By HRM
June 25, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this
So it’s ok to paint a flower on your fingernail or toenail but God forbid if you paint something on your body…
Umh - flowers on a manicure / pedicure screams trash as well. Next…
By b
June 25, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this
Crystal Marie, People like you are the reason others think that tattoos are trashy. “Done it in a bed of roses”? EW!
By Jersey
June 25, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this
Ok.. Whats the big deal. I think that if u dont like it, dont look. We may not like your hideous haircut or the hideous clothing you wear but its your choice as it is our choice to do what we want wt our OWN bodies.
I have 4 and dont cover them up. Work at an international company and get complimented on my work, not spoken to about my tattoos.
By Maria
June 25, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this
So it’s ok to paint a flower on your fingernail or toenail but God forbid if you paint something on your body…..
It’s a damn shame that some people feel like they have to hide their tatt’s. It’s too bad that society can’t accept us for who we are on the inside and not what is painted on our bodies. It doesn’t make us any less of a person than those of you who don’t have a tattoo.
All of you that choose to dog those of us with tattoo’s are just jealous little a*******holes. You only wish you had the balls to get one.
To you MR DEGREE…. you’re going to catch HEP C from your mamma before you catch it from a water fountain.
By Jersey
June 25, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this
Ok.. Whats the big deal. I think that if u dont like it, dont look. We may not like your hideous haircut or the hideous clothing you wear but its your choice as it is our choice to do what we want wt our OWN bodies.
I have 4 and dont cover them up. Work at an international company and get complimented on my work, not spoken to about my tattoos.
By swolf4810
June 25, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this
Darnell……You’re a nut.
By HRM
June 25, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this
I am a mother of five who is happily married. My boyfriend thinks I’m very hot and loves all of my tattos. My latest is a bed of roses in my lower region so now any guy that Im intimate with can say hes done it in a flower garden. At the same time, I took my 18 year old to get tattoed and she loves her too.
by Crystal Marie (luv that trashy name)
By d
June 25, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this
As the grandmother of two very handsome young adults my heart is broken by the tatoos they have place all over their bodies. Jobs do not come easily to those who have tatoos and when it is time for a promotion, don’t even ask why the guy/gal without the tatoo got the job even though you are more experienced or smarter—just look, love and admire your tatoos.
By HRM
June 25, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this
I have 4 and dont cover them up. Work at an international company and get complimented on my work, not spoken to about my tattoos.
Wow - I didn’t realize McDonalds burger flippers could sport tattoos …
By Jay
June 25, 2008 3:17 PM | Link to this
What is wrong with people? Why on earth would anyone want to desecrate their bodies with this nastiness? Another example of the ever-diminishing level of human common sense. I don’t mean this to be malicious, but tattoo’s are an obvious manifestation of those with extremely low self esteem and self respect. “What better way to show my love for…” is the most ridiculous comment to justify a tattoo. I can think of a litany of better ways to show love, honor, creativity etc. for someone or something. Get real, please.
By swolf4810
June 25, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this
I have four tats. They can all be covered if I’m at work….but in my line of work, it really doesn’t matter. I work in a old-style auto parts house. That’s my point… it’s all about what’s appropriate in each person’s situation. If I were working the customer service desk at some big department store, the boss wouldn’t HAVE to tell me I needed to cover my tatts…I’d just know cause of good sense and “home-training” when I was brought up!
By Living in AMERICA
June 25, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this
When they start spelling America with KKK - I’m outta here!
By HRM
June 25, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this
*I run my own company and I have tattoos. Neither of mine can be seen unless I’m shirtless. I’d have more if it weren’t for uptight morons who judge everyone before they even have the slightest interaction with them. BTW, I live in a gated community and make more money than most of my high-powered corporate types in my neighborhood. Oh yeah, I also have a master’s degree.
I have a theory that the more closed minded the person, the less successful they tend to be. This forum has produced a ton of evidence in favor of my theory. Thanks haters.*
I know you - you and your trashy wife live in my neighborhood. Sorry - but your delusions of wealth are completely off base. Debt is not a sign of wealth.
ps … you need to get someone to watch wifey while your at work!
By swolf4810
June 25, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this
I have four tatts. As it turns out they are all easily covered if/when I feel the need to. Since I work in an old-line ‘real auto parts house’ no one gives a hoot whether they can see my tatts or not, tho’ I do get an occasional nice comment from a customer. If I wroked at a big department store’s customer service department tho’, the boss wouldn’t have to TELL me I needed to cover my tatts….I’d just KNOW….theat comes from good sense and “home-training”. That’s my point….show or don’t show….it’s all about each person’s situation and what kind of people you have to deal with at work. Away from the job…….LET’EM SHINE!
By Starwood
June 25, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this
Hey, Kyle,
I have five tattoos with one visible on my ankle. I also have an IQ of 157, am a model, don’t drink or smoke, have all my teeth and hate NASCAR and don’t swear. So much for your theory!
By m
June 25, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this
HRM sounds like he/she has too much time on their hands. oh to be the one that sits atop that high pedestal. how’s the view up there, holier-than-thou?
By bg
June 25, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this
HRM-when responding to a previous post, there is no need to retype the whole message. You are an idiot! And you think you may know that person in your neighborhood, but how do you? Anyone can post anything on here. What a horrible thing to say about his wife! Sounds like you’re just jealous!
By Todd
June 25, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this
I personally do not have tattoos, but have considered it. I am all for folks expressing their freedoms through tattoos, body piercings, or what have you. Some cultures view these as good things. In mainstream American culture, these are considered inappropriate for the workplace.
Your employer is not paying you to make the coffee, file the documents, balance the books, sell the products, etc. They are paying you to do these things in a way that contributes to profitability. Therefore, if your tattoos, or piercings, or manner of dress, or boogers in your nose detract from this…you will not be performing the function for which you were hired.
If you think your employer does not care about these things, you are WRONG, no matter what they tell you publicly. There are businesses that exist outside mainstream corporate America that follow the same logic, only from the other side — how many tattoo parlor owners would hire a straight-laced employee who dresses conservatively, has no tattoos or piercings, wears a suit and tie to work, etc? — none. That is because you will not attract customers, you will distract your co-workers, etc. That in turn leads to lower profit. Businesses exist to maximize profit.
By all means, get a tattoo of your choosing on whatever part of your body you choose. And then live with the consequences of that choice, good or bad.
By HRM
June 25, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this
I have five tattoos with one visible on my ankle. I also have an IQ of 157, am a model, don’t drink or smoke, have all my teeth and hate NASCAR and don’t swear. So much for your theory!
Is this the dream you have for yourself ~ as you sit watching Jerry Springer in your single-wide? In the words of the great Aerosmith, I say - Dream On, dream until your dreams come true!
By m m
June 25, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this
look at all of you with no tattoo’s that claim to be CEO’s, Presidents, Owners, Rich, better than thou, ……. what are you doing now…… sitting at your computer blogging about tattoo’s. Must be really busy at work.
By HRM
June 25, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this
HRM sounds like he/she has too much time on their hands. oh to be the one that sits atop that high pedestal. how’s the view up there, holier-than-thou?
It’s simply wonderful being at the top, looking down on all the inked trash. And yes - being uber wealthy allows me to do what I please with my time. Letting the tattooed ilk of society know what people really think of them is so fun, yet fulfilling. Yes - I love my life!
By Kim
June 25, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this
Tattoos are a matter of personal preference, and the policies toward their display in the work place are up to individuals and their employers. To the rather disturbing contingent here, who have chosen to stereotype people with tattoos as illiterate, be very careful when you make such assumptions. The FREEDOM that you complain about is the same FREEDOM that gives you the right to express your opinion. If you are unhappy with that FREEDOM, you also have the ability to relocate to an area that is geared more toward your point of view: from the reports lately, there are lots of cults that need new, mindless members.
By HRM
June 25, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this
look at all of you with no tattoo’s that claim to be CEO’s, Presidents, Owners, Rich, better than thou, ……. what are you doing now…… sitting at your computer blogging about tattoo’s. Must be really busy at work.
Reading IS fundamental. FYI - The posters that are claiming fame, wealth and power are the inked - not the REAL movers and shakers of society.
I realize that everyone must have dreams - but please all mightly inked ilk of the world - WAKE UP. Your living in a fantasy land - you are not what you claim to be and never will be!
By Chris
June 25, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this
I have around 20+ tattoos. I have a successful career and have received many compliments over the years at my workplace. If someone is offended by my expressions, that is not my problem. If someone does not care to take the time to get to know me as a person, that again, is not my problem. I express myself in a way that most people wish they could. Some call me a wanna-be. I simply call me, me. For all the nay sayers, please be careful whom your ranting and raving about because they just may be the one on the inside keeping your company up and running.
By HRM
June 25, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this
First, I would like to thank my personal assistant - George - for blogging on my behalf today. George has NO tatoos, by the way, because it is simply not allowed by those I employee.
I have become rather bored with this blog. The cocktail hour is fast approaching and George must alert one of his counterparts of my desired libation for this evening.
I must also admit, I thought that someone might come up with some challenge for me today. However, as usual, I’ve been proven superior.
Life IS good at the top. Cheers! HRM / glc
By bg
June 25, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this
HRM-you are just plain annoying! Go away!
By HRM
June 25, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this
What a pathetic t** I have to be to troll a board and harrass people who are different than me. I have no life, therefore, I get my kicks by making fun of yours. Spelling and grammar are also not my forte.
By GAPeach
June 25, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this
I only read these blogs every now & then and this one takes the cake.. we have some very judgmental and hateful people here. I grew up in church, and yes I learned we were to treat our body like a temple, but what about those that over eat, “judge people”, beat their wife, child or dog, smoke/drink, cuss, have sexual thoughts, etc.. all sins are created equal. I have one tattoo, a Peach, because of Steve Miller Band Song “Joker”. I got it when I was 17, so yes I was young but I put it in a location for me. When I turned 37, I had it recolored & had Georgia wrote across it. To me, it just shows I’m a true Southern Ga Peach. I personally don’t like when people cover their body in them but it is there choice. Just like it’s your choice for your imperfections. Quit judging & hating.
By HRM
June 25, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this
Okay I’ll admit it… I have the lowest self esteem of anyone on here, inked or not. I know I think I’m far superior to everyone…but it’s really just a lie I hide behind on the internet like most sorry losers that need to blow themselves up and tear others down just so I can look at my own fat a* in the mirror every day. So, I’m going to tell it like it is. I’m morbidly obese, riddled with acne. I’ve never been l**d. NEVER. There is not a female in the world that would come within 25 feet of me, despite my immense and entirely made up wealth. I am, without a doubt, the most pathetic man on the planet. I will end it all tonight so that I can do my one part in this world to make it a better place.
By Lucy
June 25, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this
NOTE TO HRM…after reading your snide comments, I have come to the conclusion that you secretly desire tattoos but are afraid of allowing yourself the freedom to enjoy body art (yes, I said BODY ART). I suggest a tight-collared, suit- wearing person contributes less to society than a t-shirt wearing tattoo artist who probably has more true friends that you’ll ever have in your entire life and probably a lot more fun, too. You need to chill out HRM, go get a massage, enjoy a cup of coffee from Starbucks served by a tattooed, pierced human being much more enlightened than you will ever hope to be if you don’t do something about that attitude and tight-a*s of yours.
By Wendy
June 25, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this
In response to two of you:
AlohaVampire June 25, 2008 1:25 PM I didn’t see any mentions above about “tramp stamps”. Those can be visible almost any time. I can’t stand a pretty girl with a butterfly tattoo just above her butt. I don’t understand it. In my personal opinion I think yuck. Ankles and back of shoulders are were ink belongs on a woman.
Really? Why just those two places? What’s wrong with “tramp stamps”? As long as they’re not fairies or butterflies or something ridiculous, why does it matter where it is?
And Kyle June 25, 2008 1:50 PM Tattoos have no place in the workplace. Keep them hidden at all times. That said, tattoos look hideous and usually ARE worn by mostly white trailer trash or 1 step above that economic strata. If you ever go to a festival or concert and see a tattooed woman, she is usually drunk, chain smoking, is missing teeth and cussing every 5 seconds. Nascar fan comes to mind.
Did you REALLY just stereotype that badly? Please get a life.
I am a young female (early 20s), and I got my only tattoo when I was 19. It’s NOT on my lower back, but it IS on my right hip bone. I chose to get it there because I wanted it to be hidden if necessary, and the only person who needs to see it every day is me. It isn’t something stupid like cherries, but instead, it’s a symbol that means a lot to me and my family background. So who are you all to tell me that it’s unclassy or trashy or anything like that? You don’t know me, and you don’t know anything about me. I chose to get it FOR ME. And yes, since I know this world is full of people who hate tattoos and find them disgusting — I didn’t get it for the world to see.
By Layton
June 25, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this
I have one tattoo which is of great significance to me. I planned it for 5 years before getting it, and finally had it done on a very special occasion. I come from a conservative family who doesn’t approve of that particular form of self-expression, but they accept it because they realize that it is MY life. Frankly, I don’t care what random people think of me for having a tattoo, and I would be a pretty pathetic person if I did.
I have the right to have as many tattoos as I want. And to the person who stated that the workplace has the right to hire or not hire anyone they want - I absolutely agree with you. I work for people I respect, and if they ask me to keep my tattoo covered I will do so out of respect for them. If I was ever turned down for a job or fired because of my tattoo, I’d just know that that wasn’t the right job for me. I wouldn’t work for any cause that is that wrapped up in misconceptions.
And like so many others, I too am glad that tattoos are so effective in dividing the population. It makes it ever so much easier to recognize the small-minded people of the world, who are so in love with themselves that they can’t accept the idea of anyone not being exactly like them.
By fer
June 25, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this
It all depends on the work place…..
All I can think of when I see tattoos and piercings is the PAIN and the EXPENSE!!!
By Kevin
June 25, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this
People… this country is all about freedom!
People have the freedom to get all the visible tattoos they want!
However, I also have the freedom to choose NOT to do any professional business (medical, financial, legal, etc.) with these tattoo covered individuals. However, I will allow them to prepare my next Big Mac or pour my next Slurpee.
By Tom
June 26, 2008 8:13 AM | Link to this
Employers have the right to do what they want, if you do not like it, find a job elsewhere. Perhaps some place where the employer does not care how much you have scribbled all over your body or how many extra holes you have put in your head. I have often thought it would be a good study to tag people, like they used to do on Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom, with excessive piercings and tattoos when they are young and then re-capture them again when they are 50 or so to ask them how smart all of that body modification really was.
By Steve-O
June 26, 2008 8:20 AM | Link to this
Since when it is a sign of creativity to have someone else paint something on your body? Sorry but that is a stretch! It does not take any smarts or personal creativity to walk into a tatto parlor and point to a design on the wall. You people are deluding yourselves. When I see tattoos I think to myself “there goes a person who will do anything to be trendy.” When that trend is no longer popular, and the time will come when it isn’t so popular any more, you will all look like idiots (if you don’t already). You absolutely have the right to do whatever you want with your body but others have the right to judge you as well, that’s how life works. My cousin is absolutely covered with tattoos and when he comes to family dinners no one ever says a thing to him about them and I can see the disappointment on his face. He is just dying for us to comment or be shocked and even my 93 year-old grandmother knows better than to give him the satisfaction. And BTW he is one of the dumbest most uncreative people I know so that blows that theory. If you truly want to be an individual then don’t follow the rest of the cattle to the tattoo parlor. Some of the silliest things I have ever heard are in this blog! “I got this one on my right foot because my right side is stronger.” Huh? Are you kidding me? A friend of mine, years ago, got a typical lower back tattoo and it was made up of some kind of strange symbols when she showed it to me she said “they stand for something very meaningful to me.” So I asked her what they stood for and she said “I can’t remember exactly what they mean but I have it written down at home and I can email it to you.” For a second I almost laughed and then I realized she was serious. Oh yes, it is so meaningful to me, but I don’t know, it’s written down at home somewhere. God!
By Jessica
June 26, 2008 8:23 AM | Link to this
I have no tattoos and have no desire for them. They look trashy when visible but if hidden can be a little mysterious. I cannot imagine being a 70 year old woman with a rose tattooed on my buttocks. Not a pretty picture.
By Victor
June 26, 2008 8:29 AM | Link to this
To all of those who put their tattoos in areas that can be hidden, thank you. You are doing yourselves and everyone else a favor. I live intown and whenever I go to certain stores or restaurants and see, particularly women, with tattoos all over their bodies, faces and necks, I feel so terrible for them. Such a foolish choice. I realize right now they are young and beautiful and living a particular kind of life but life changes and, God willing, we all grow old. I just have a hard time imagining these poor people as middle-aged with big tattoos all up and down their necks and arms; tattoos on sagging, aging skin. It won’t be pretty and I am sure there will come a time when they very much regret it.
By Stupid is forever
June 26, 2008 8:34 AM | Link to this
I’ll admit that some tattoos look cute on somebody 19 years old. Somehow I don’t think that rising sun coming out of the back of their briefs or the barbed wire tramp stamp around their bicep will look quite as cute on an old man. Youth is fleeting but tattoos and stupid are forever.
By Sugar
June 26, 2008 8:35 AM | Link to this
OK, so a tattoo reflects who you are as a person, and they have meaning to you. That’s all fine and dandy.
Tell me then, why do you cover them up? How can you find meaning in a symbol tattoo’d on your back, where you cannot see it?
I don’t care for body marring, and that’s my opinion. Those of us who do not like tattoos are allowed to voice our opinion, just as well as those who have the tats.
If it’s personal to you, then keep it personal. I myself do not understand why anyone would want to permanently mar their body. Or have some stranger inject ink into your body and call it ART. I just don’t get it…….
By Herb
June 26, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this
What kills me is all the tatted up individuals on this blog who claim they don’t care what others think. Seriously? If you paint your body up and display it to the world then you care so much more about what others think the rest of us don’t know what to do with you. If you don’t care what others think then why are you all on this blog defending your tattoos. If you really don’t care what the non-tattooed think you wouldn’t even be on this blog. The truth is you care so much it is driving you crazy.
By Tober
June 26, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this
Tatoos and piercings are a turn-off to me, almost turning on the gag reflex, particularly in retaurants. If people want piercings and large tatoos, fine with me, but please keep them at home or covered up when serving the public. They show your lack of regard for others who do not share your choices.
By Makes me sick to my stomach
June 26, 2008 8:40 AM | Link to this
Tattoos are disgusting. End of story.
By Great career move
June 26, 2008 8:42 AM | Link to this
I was in a Midtown restaurant several days ago and could not help noticing that the “busboy”, who appeared to be about 30 years old, was covered with what appeared to be jailhouse tattoos. I’m glad to see that he has a real job and has achieved what is probably going to be the peak of his working career.
By SAR
June 26, 2008 8:43 AM | Link to this
Actions come with consequences. This is something most of us learn at a very early age. It’s you body to decorate as you well please but it’s also the right of a business person who has invested, in some cases, great amounts of money, to run a successful business. If the tattoos mean so much to your individual personality, by all means go for the ink. Just keep in mind and realize the next candidate in the interview process may come in without all the colorful distractions and they’ll get the job you didn’t get. Are they worth regulating yourself to a low end job for? Personally I don’t think so but that’s just the opinion of one person.
By Sunshine
June 26, 2008 8:44 AM | Link to this
My mother-in-law got several tattoos when she got older and her kids were grown. She had been a good Catholic daughter, wife, mother all her life and she felt like rebelling. She was so proud of her tattoos and showed them to everyone. The sad part is what she didn’t know is that everyone, even her husband, thinks they are the most hilarious mid-life crisis ever. She is teased and ridiculed behind her back about them by all of her children and many of her friends. They love her but she really looks foolish. So stupidity is not wasted on the young.
By GMC
June 26, 2008 8:46 AM | Link to this
They don’t call them tramp stamps for nothing. These replies illustrate the low level of education and resulting abysmal ignorance of those who have them.
By Roger
June 26, 2008 8:47 AM | Link to this
Give it up to Darnell, why would anyone bring race or politics into a debate about tattoo’s. Darnell, as a conservative, I will be so happy when Obama is elected president. After he is elected to the most powerful position in the world, you and others will not be able to pull the race card anymore. Maybe then, Jessie Jackson and his homeboys will get a life and complain about things that really matter.
By lbr
June 26, 2008 8:56 AM | Link to this
Why permanently disfigure your body? Are those things still going to look when you’re 65? I can’t stand tattoos. They do look completely unprofessional-unless you happen to work at the circus or carnival in which case I suppose they are appropriate.
By Queenie
June 26, 2008 9:02 AM | Link to this
I am a heavily tattooed Executive Assistant. I’ve been an EA for 27 yrs, tattooed for 12 of those years. I have only had one job where my tattoos - which are very feminine and pretty, lots of flowers, fairies, butterflies - were an issue for one boss. He asked me to keep them covered. I was more than happy to do so. I waited until I was in my mid-30s to get my first tattoo. I made sure I knew what I wanted, that it had meaning to me and was in good taste. I did not want something I would regret in my twilight years. My tattoos are a reflection of my personality…a free spirit, easy going, mystical, and a bit contradictory.
By Hip Fools
June 26, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this
You tatted up clowns are pathetic, superficial, trendy, fad-conscious posers.
Ooohhh, I have a butterfly on my flat butt.
Mannnn, I have a tribal arm band on my pale limp bicep.
And how ‘bout those hideous calf tattoos - WTF?
You tatted-up jackasses deserve to have your butts kicked by a marauding band of Hells’ Angels - the kind of gentleman who don’t look like a bunch of wannabe fools who get tattoos to boost their low-azz self-esteem. Freakin’ goofballs.
By RC
June 26, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this
There are a lot of very narrow minded people on here that need some intense diversity training. Most people use discretion when displaying their tattoos.
I was with a friend a church last week and a female walked in with blue highlights in her hair. He leaned to me and said, Someone needs to give her a spanking. I thought to myself, we sit in a place where there is only ONE judge. ONE being that can cast judgment on others and you have the nerve to do so without even knowing this individual.
For being the Bible belt it is awfully negative around here. I believe Jesus said Live life to the fullest and not to judge your fellow man.
Whether the haters out here like it or not, there are some pretty successful people with tattoos and piercings, or colored hair, or t-shirts, or high heels, or tennis shoes, or whatever we choose to complain about this week. Because this is what America has become, a place where we can sue for feelings. A place where we can sue for spilling a cup of coffee on ourselves, knowing the cup of coffee was hot to begin with.
America needs to wake up, visit some of the other countries out there and see that they don’t have time to sit on their couch and judge others.
Being part of corporate America and holding a high paying job doesn’t mean that you are more successful . Most of these individuals have a family at home that doesn’t even know them anymore. Most of these individuals have a spouse that has been forced into an affair because the magic that once was has disappeared.
Amazing how much weight we put on having a tattoo. Want to see mine? It has my children’s names in it. It symbolizes a lot to me. I am proud of my children, I love my children. No one has a tattoo like mine, I didn’t pick it off a wall, I didn’t pick it out of a book. I drew it. It has meaning. It has a story, it has memories. It doesn’t stop me from getting a job.
America is lost because of all the people on here that think they can judge others. Please grow up a little bit.
By RC
June 26, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this
I also forgot to mention that for the haters, think back to the day when blacks had to sit at the back of the bus because the color of their skin wasn’t white. What makes this any different?
You are discriminating against people with tattoos the same way blacks were discriminated against. It is quite sickening to think we still have that mentality.
By VAGuy
June 26, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this
Darnell is baiting (I think) you guys and he’s good at it. Someone compared toenail polish to tatoos. How ignorant is that? The polish can be removed at any time for free. Is the same true for tats? There something to be said about the ability to be spontaneous and those of you with tats cannot do that without covering another part of your body. After a while, you just look like a junkie who’s replaced coke with tatoos. No control!
By CAP
June 26, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this
I just have to get my two cents in on this one! As they say, “In my opinion”…..the worst thing about getting a tattoo is when teenagers get them at 16, (where are their parent’s) and then at 40 they are wondering what they were thinking! I do not like tattoo’s at all personally….I think they look dirty and nasty. I saw a beautiful girl the other day with a huge tattoo across the top of her breasts…..how could she want to defile herself like that, especially since she was such a knockout! Can’t figure that out…..she did work at a Harley shop, maybe that is why?? I cannot believe that someone can make a choice like a tattoo that is permanent forever, unless taken off surgically…….how would you know how you would feel down the road in ten or twenty years! Our bodies are beautiful enough without putting ink all over them! One persons opinion! If you are trying to be creative, than draw a picture or create something……….
By Graygoat
June 26, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this
I think tattoos can be a deterrent to your career if they go overboard. IMO, they are OK if they can be covered with normal, everyday clothing. Anywhere else and it’s nobody’s business. I get tickled reading some of the comments, because ANY body modification or adornment of ANY kind could be just as distracting. And that would include some common hair styles and extreme amounts of make-up. To me, it gets down to what’s appropriate in the workplace. And that depends on the line of work you’re in. It wouldn’t be appropriate for a tattoo artist to wear Armani suits and Gucci shoes to work! On the other hand, I don’t expect my financial advisor to look like he’s headed for a biker bar!
Damn! We’ve become a “nation of the offended”! Get over it, people!
By Rider
June 26, 2008 9:40 AM | Link to this
I see a lot of teenagers with visible tattoos (I’m a high school teacher) and it’s painfully obvious they’ve given no thought to possible career choices. Employers have the right to base their employment choices on body art. I have several tattoos, but I purposely get them where they do not show at work. My tattoos are on my chest leg, and arm, and all above the elbow and concealable with a golf shirt. I know my principal doesn’t care that I’m inked, but who knows what the next principal will think, or if I go for another teaching job.
By Caddy
June 26, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this
It seems funny to me that there are so many comments on here that are negative toward tattoos and how they would never have one and that they are stupid, etc… But I never see any tattooed people calling out non tattooed people for not having them. Its about the individual.
I have several tattoos. They are large scale. But I’m also a banker. I wear a suit to work every day. If you walked into the office to talk to me, you wouldn’t know at all.
I don’t think I should be judged by what I do to my body. And on that point, I’ve read comments about God making us in His image. Yes, I’m a Christian too. But I have read and studied the word. There is no place in the new testament that says it is wrong to get a tattoo.
By Shelly
June 26, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this
Personally, I think white people look more ridiculous than any other group wearing tattoos. You would think they would be smart enough to know better.
By Notal