BlogBreak

By Gaybasher

December 10, 2008 8:10 AM | Link to this

I for one am tired of hearing about one group or another wanting special priviledges!! The voters in California said NO to gay marriage. End of issue, shut up and let us live our lives without your nonsense cluttering up the landscape. Life is tough, wear a crash helmet. Quit crying and start living your lives!!

By really....again?

December 10, 2008 8:14 AM | Link to this

Do economic boycotts work? No. It doesn’t work in blue-collar postitions with a strike and it doesn’t work with a one day boycott by some group trying to prove a point.

Plus it seems like half of the gay community is in entertainment or polititcs these days, and we could afford to drop a few people from each of those areas.

Just another senseless protest by a group of people who already get way too much special treatment nowadays as it is.

By clyde

December 10, 2008 8:18 AM | Link to this

If I were to have an employee call in gay today,I’d call that employee back fired.

By itsme

December 10, 2008 8:19 AM | Link to this

If gay people don’t want those jobs, I’m sure there are plenty of people who would be glad to work… without complaining.

By sandy

December 10, 2008 8:22 AM | Link to this

To “Gaybasher” and “Really…again?”: What special priviledges do you think they want? What special treatment do you think they get? Remember, your use of the word SPECIAL indicates that you think they want priviledges that others don’t want, and treatment that others don’t get. Please, tell us all what you are referring to. Tell us what special priviledges they want that you don’t have or want, and what special treatment they get that you don’t get.

By BC

December 10, 2008 8:22 AM | Link to this

Marrage is between a man and a woman. That’s why God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Adam or Eve and Eve! Sexual parts don’t fit together other than for a man and woman and only a man and woman can produce offspring. Homosexuality is a choice in life! If you feel like a woman trapped in a man’s body maybe it’s because you are a perverted, sick individual just like a child molester. Maybe you should go to church and read your Bible and pray to God for help instead of giving in to sin and the perversions of homosexuality! If you think Homosexuality and Gay are the cool thing to be, I would hate to be in your shoes on judgement day!

By gritty kitty

December 10, 2008 8:23 AM | Link to this

In these tough economic times, there are many people who are out of a job, who would do anything to have one!! I understand being passionate about your cause, but calling in gay? Think about the thousands of Americans who have been laid off before you take your job for granted.

By In the closet

December 10, 2008 8:25 AM | Link to this

Definitely not! If anyone at my “liberal” place of employment found out that i was gay, I would be fired on some made up technicality. I have seen it happen.

By DBDEMOCRAT

December 10, 2008 8:26 AM | Link to this

It takes nothing from you to empower another.Two candles burn more brightly than one.Judge not, lest ye be judged.

By well...

December 10, 2008 8:27 AM | Link to this

gays comprise the most diverse minority on the planet. they have been around just as long as all mankind, in every culture.

this whole non-acceptance deal is part of a religo-political movement started back in the day by a dying roman empororer who wanted to make sure he got in good with jesus before he died.

if i was gay i would prolly call in today. since i’m not, all i can do is continue to support my gay friends just as much as all my friends - if not more because come on, they’re gonna be singled out more than any other minority soley based on their emotional and/or physical attachments to another person.

i think it’s perverted that people care so much about out gays and who they want to sleep with. get your pretend-morally correct mind of the gutter you homophobes.

By Tommy

December 10, 2008 8:28 AM | Link to this

wow.. a lot of ignorant people are still found in GA…. BC, you are especially a joke.. I would hate see what happens to you on your so-called “judgement day”.. good riddance to you and your like… this world has no place for hate-filled mongers like you, and I think your little jesus-fellow would agree.. too bad abortion is not retroactive..

By A

December 10, 2008 8:29 AM | Link to this

It was only a matter of time before the Neanderthals like BC came out of the woodwork. Such ignorance is why gays have to resort to measures like this boycott. Homosexuality is not a lifestyle choice. Why would anyone “choose” to be gay if it means being discriminated against in all aspects of life. Get with the 21st century BC!

By Bill

December 10, 2008 8:30 AM | Link to this

I once called in gay to work, but I was only joking. Now, apparently, it’s an actual movement. While I do not agree with any of this legislation, taking the day off is not gonna solve anything.

By BC

December 10, 2008 8:30 AM | Link to this

I guess all of the gays would be calling in sick because they really are some sick individuals that are in need a lot of counseling! I can no more accept a person for being homosexual or gay than I can a child molester!

By Jim

December 10, 2008 8:32 AM | Link to this

The voters of California voted NO to Prop 8. What about the simple word NO do you not understand. I voted for McCain for President but his suporters are not out protesting against Obama. The people have spoken. Marriage is defined as a covenant between a Man and a Woman. If the gays want civil unions, so be it, but Marriage is already defined. End of story, so let’s move on.

By NH

December 10, 2008 8:32 AM | Link to this

What we need now is to get this country on the right track from an economic standpoint. You want to take a day off? Fine. You want to be gay? Whatever. If you want to be treated like everyone else, quit whining and go to work and do your very best every day. Help this country out. Right now there are 50 people standing outside your office who will start tomorrow for 25% less pay. Think about it.

By Bob

December 10, 2008 8:32 AM | Link to this

I’d call in STRAIGHT on Friday, but there are way too many people in my community out of work. I don’t want to be one of ‘em.

By BC

December 10, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this

Tommy, I don’t believe in abortion either but if I did and it were retroactive you would be a good candidate!

By NH

December 10, 2008 8:39 AM | Link to this

And by the way, preach it BC!!! I am not ignorant. I don’t judge and I don’t hate. I just know right from wrong.

By steve

December 10, 2008 8:42 AM | Link to this

This is a really bad idea. It won’t work and very few will participate.

Why punish your place of employment because of these legislations?

I do sympathize with gays who want equal treatment under the law and think that they should be allowed every privaledge given to heterosexual partners. However, this is the wrong way to try and get there.

By Peadawg

December 10, 2008 8:42 AM | Link to this

This is pathetic that people “call in Gay” and take their job for granted. I know many many people who would love to have a good job. These people “calling in Gay” should not go into work tomorrow morning…discraceful!!

By Mike In Woodstock

December 10, 2008 8:44 AM | Link to this

Gay marriage will be legalized in President Obama’s second term.

By Think

December 10, 2008 8:44 AM | Link to this

BC, is that why people strap bombs to themselves and blow themselves up because of God? Think about what you are saying. Perhaps you can’t think? People like you present God as an egomaniacal, hateful, vengeful, blood thirsty, insecure bigot. Get over yourself already. When people stop seeing gays as a walking sex act or a “lifestyle” and start seeing them as whole human beings then maybe progress will be made. Why we never hear lifestyle being applied to a person who is heterosexual. Is there such a thing as a heterosexual lifestyle? What does that mean?

By OneChris

December 10, 2008 8:46 AM | Link to this

I read also they want folks to take money out of bank accounts to show the numbers but really who has any money to take out of the bank? California is a state that had a vote and they said NO so the people did speak. What is sad here is civil rights should have been first and then this marriage stuff. I for one would like to see the law state once married no divorce until you complete a year of counseling to try to save the marriage. The divorce rate is over 50% so it is not a sacred vow but just a money making factory. IF divorce were no longer an option then it would force people to consider marriage for what it should be a lifetime long vow with no way out ever! Divorce should only be allowed if one is raped, beaten to near death or fraud. Other than that you shoud not be allowed to divorce. If I were a divorce judge I would force counseling since most people do not even really know the person they marry. Just sad all around. Calling out of work only hurts the production for your entire company and team and is a poor attitude.

By BC

December 10, 2008 8:49 AM | Link to this

well I think my husband might be gay, that’s why I’m so damn angry! Why did god do this to me!! Why did my husband decide to be gay!! Is it me??

By Brian

December 10, 2008 8:50 AM | Link to this

Sad to see how ignorant Georgia is. Sad, very sad….

By Pat in Atlanta

December 10, 2008 8:51 AM | Link to this

I oppoese gay marriage, but support unions if that what some want to do. I believe that it’s okay for a gay couple to adopt if they’re fit to be parents. I’ve witnessed a gay household and they raised their kid to be who they were, and that kid was straight but loved his parents (both men).

I’m not ignorant, and I don’t believe in bashing or making fun. I was at a christian concert the other night, and a few guys walked past us, and yes they were gay, and one yelled out “Jesus isn’t with us tonight because we’re gay.” How sad for him to have to say that. If people voted for banning Prop 8 than why should that be different than any other vote we have here in America? It got approved…that’s it!!!

BTW…I’m calling in straight today!

By Richard

December 10, 2008 8:54 AM | Link to this

BC, didn’t you mean “God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and STEVE?” Famous Christian evangelist/comedian’s line, if I’m not mistaken.

By steve

December 10, 2008 8:54 AM | Link to this

The “people have spoken” argument is not a good one and demonstrates historical ignorance. Imagine if instead of a Supreme Court decision (Brown v. Board of Education), we had just had “the people speak”.

The constitution protects minorities against majorities thankfully.

Should have never been a vote. Instead, courts should hear evidence from either side.

On one side, it could clearly be shown that someone’s right to the pursuit of happiness is being denied. On the other, “Jesus don’t like gays” could be presented.

By For States rights

December 10, 2008 8:56 AM | Link to this

For you folks that are anti gay…what is it to you. One does not choose to be gay or straight…if they did everyone could tell you what day and time you decided to be gay or straight. To all the gay folks…if you don’t want to be judged by your sexual orientation…quit flaunting it in the face of everyone in society…Listen closely….the VAST MAJORITY of us DON’T GIVE A HOOT…shut up already. You, the gay community, are causing alot of the anti gay feelings that the fringe of society reacts against, by continually flaunting who you sleep with. Once more WE DON’T CARE. Now….get up and go to work.

By James

December 10, 2008 8:56 AM | Link to this

As a gay man, I think this ‘calling in gay’ crap is just another example of the stupidity that is pervasive in our community. I am thankful for my professional job of 11 years and wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize it. I don’t let the fact that I am gay lead my life.

By Roy

December 10, 2008 8:57 AM | Link to this

Yes BC, it’s a curse from the Lord of host! And for your hatefulness and holier than though attitude here’s another! Your children and their children and their childrens children will ALL grow up to be…..Queens! But hey, look at the bright side, you’ll have a “Royal Family”!!!

By Pat in Atlanta

December 10, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

Hey Brian…ignorance is everywhere, not just Georgia.

By BC

December 10, 2008 9:00 AM | Link to this

Think asked the question: Is there such a thing as a heterosexual lifestyle? What does that mean? The answer to this question is NORMAL! How many homosexual or gay animals do you see? Right, NONE! That should tell you something!

By Brian

December 10, 2008 9:00 AM | Link to this

I would like one person who opposes gay marriage to give me one good reason how it impacts them negatively. And don’t say sanctaty of marriage because if that is true then the divorce rate wouldn’t be over 50% right now.

By Sally Forth

December 10, 2008 9:00 AM | Link to this

Oh, no! I need to get my hair done and buy a floral centerpiece and I can’t find any hairdressers or flower arrangers at work today!

By ieatcats

December 10, 2008 9:02 AM | Link to this

This is a great idea for lovers of all who feel they are mistreated. I propose next week those who embrace pedophilia call in sick too, those for bestiality the week after. Oh and we can’t forget the necrophiliacs; they’ll get the last week. Hopefully, this will cover all the bases and give everyone their special day off - to prove what, I have no idea.

By Cate

December 10, 2008 9:03 AM | Link to this

To all you bigots: They have determined that it is most likely a hormone fluctuation in utero that causes people to be gay. Once they determine how to test for it in an unborn child, will you be aborting your gay children?

God makes people how he makes them. Get over it and act like a REAL Christian.

By Mike

December 10, 2008 9:03 AM | Link to this

I am glad to see the gays took a day. The traffic this morning wasn’t bad at all. I now know who can’t drive in traffic!

By Bob Eubanks

December 10, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this

I firmly believe the gay people have every “Right ” in life that I have. They have the right to think and live as they chose. I have the right to not like them. We are even.

By Pat in Atlanta

December 10, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this

Hey Steve…..Jesus would never deny anyone because thet’re gay. I hope I did not mis-read your comment. Thanks man…sorry if I did.

By Michael

December 10, 2008 9:05 AM | Link to this

ok you say that god created adam and eve but weren’t we all supposedly born of adam and eve there for god created us all.Didn’t he also say love thy neighbor. before you go spilling the christian bull around here get your facts straight.

By Brian

December 10, 2008 9:05 AM | Link to this

Pat - yes ignorance is everywhere. But, since I’m reading a GA paper and I’m in GA, I direct the comment to Georgians.

By Bob Eubanks

December 10, 2008 9:07 AM | Link to this

gay activity is very common in the animal world, monkeys, dogs, cows, BC read a book!

By Browneyes

December 10, 2008 9:10 AM | Link to this

BC! The Gospel that contains the words of Jesus, say absolutely nothing negative about Gays or Lesbians. This should be enough for thoughtful “Christians” to pause and wonder what the big deal is if Jesus never once spoke one word about it. If Jesus did not find the love between two people of the same sex offensive, then one must ask why it creates such a problem for some fundamentalist religious people. Clearly, we are really dealing with their discomfort, insecurity and fear.

By the way: Jesus did repeatedly criticize those who were self righteous and condeming of others. Also he did mention divorce. Matt5:32

Jesus did talk about His ministry to bring the ostracized and marginalized from the outside into God’s Fold. Luke 4:18

Jeus did violate the mainstream religious laws of his time as well.

Jesus did not say or even emply anywhere in the Gospels that a person’s sexuality or sexual orientation was in any way a factor in his or her relationship to God. John 3:16 (I’m including in the whosoever!)

Get Educated before you start condeming anyone. If you don’t support the cause “Move On.”

By UGA Class of 1981 Grad

December 10, 2008 9:11 AM | Link to this

I tried to call in gay but all of my co-workers at the flower shop had beat me to it.

By Bob Eubanks

December 10, 2008 9:12 AM | Link to this

The gay man next to me has the same rights I have. I cannot marry another man, he cannot. I can marry a women, so can he. We have the exact same rights in life. stop complaining.

By ce

December 10, 2008 9:12 AM | Link to this

Simply a stupid idea. Employers/businesses should suffer because of a person’s sexual orientation? How dumb is that? Given today’s economy and the high employment rate, it would be less than wise to put one’s job in jeopardy. The next call will be to the local Labor Department - calling in unemployed.

By DPK

December 10, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this

Does the Christian belief “Love thy neighbor” include “unless they are gay?”

By ScottATl

December 10, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

I telecommute in Atlanta for Wachovia/Wells Fargo (17 years!) and am grateful for their supportive policies toward me and my partner and family. I did not call in gay because I have the good fortune to identify as gay at work without recrimination. However, I am telling anyone who will listen about my decision and I support the efforts of those who participate in today’s protest. We are valuable employees and citizens no less worthy of support and equal consideration in policies that support our families (we create and strengthen families too.)

By Pat in Atlanta

December 10, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this

I hear ya Brian. Understood…

Hey Bob…you’re right! My female dog humps other female dogs…whatever, right?

By RWL

December 10, 2008 9:19 AM | Link to this

Sally,

You are dumb. Gays do more then hair and flower arrangements. I am gay and am in Construction Management. I really need to get out of Georgia, you rednecks are rediculous.

By Peadawg

December 10, 2008 9:19 AM | Link to this

By DPK December 10, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this Does the Christian belief “Love thy neighbor” include “unless they are gay?”

No…it is “unless they are a Florida Gator.” :)

By John

December 10, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this

Bottom line - The term marriage was taken from the bible and does mean between a Man and Woman. That is why there is a big fight - how come there has not been a push for civil union which has the same rights but a different name.

I remember when this issue first became a hot topic doing some research and found out that conservative Christians would support civil unions by about 75% versus 15% for gay marriage.

I don’t think most people care about the rights as much as the terms.

Question to all the gay people why do push for the term marriage over civil union?

By Andrewk829

December 10, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

50 or 100 years from now, when society is more enlightened and advanced and accordingly more accepting of their fellow humans, people will read the homophobic comments of our day, such as those on this forum, and wonder how people could be so hateful. When posting your comments on this and similar forums, you are creating a permanent historical record that will be viewed by historians and others to represent the sentiment of Atlanta-area residents in the year 2008. Do you Atlantans want to be on the wrong side of history again as you were during the era of racial segregation of the 20th century?

By Steve

December 10, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

BC, I would hate to be YOU on judgement day. And speaking of perversion, what exactly to you think you and your kind do to the word of God, or even the spirit of Christianity as you twist it to justify your unfounded fears? As a gay Christian, I refuse to let your kind hijack my Christ for your own distorted purposes. I will pray for you.

By BC

December 10, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

I guess I’m having such a hard time with all of this because I’m gay. I’ve never told anyone about it because I’m afraid of the consequences.

By naydooh

December 10, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

i feel sorry for homosexuals. you are living a life of great sin. God did not intend for man to be with man or woman to be with woman and you have no right asking for anything that goes against the Bible. please don’t call me a hater or homophobe because i am not. i simply believe that the bible is the law and you are seriously breaking it.

i also believe that you did not choose homosexuality but were born with it. with that being said, i also believe that God answers the prayers of His believers - so it’s up to you to want to change and to believe that change is possible.

By Joe

December 10, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

Calling in Gay…..Now that is a great way to get what you want. How about a pink slip? Hopefully those who are calling in Gay today will loose their jobs.

By zeke

December 10, 2008 9:26 AM | Link to this

Those that do should be fired and replaced, end of story! They are not seeking equal rights, they are seeking special rights! They have the same rights as the rest of us to marry anyone they choose of the opposite sex! Enough of this ridiculous agenda!

By a hetero

December 10, 2008 9:28 AM | Link to this

I could care less if others are gay. I could also care less if others are not. I just don’t want it ‘rubbed in my face’. Gay people often seem to make EVERYTHING revolve around the fact they are gay. Get over it. EVERYTHING is not about the fact heteros are not gay anymore than the fact that some are. Others preference for what happens in the bedroom is just not my concern.

As a business owner, I can tell you it would seriously anger me if people took off because they are straight or gay. What does that have to do with anything? That is just an excuse to miss a day of work at my expense. Calling in Gay should cause people to lose their job - just like calling in not Gay. Bad reason to miss a day of work.

By WHY?

December 10, 2008 9:30 AM | Link to this

I really do not understand why the AJC encourages blogs like this. All it does is to give a the same old idiots a forum for venting their ignorance. Shame on you, AJC!

By Steve

December 10, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this

I just can’t wait until these QUEERS marry each other and then want a divorce. They will see what child support and allimony is all about!

By Honestly

December 10, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

Really!, I don’t think its up to any of us to judge someone by their sexuality! I mean don’t get me wrong i don’t approve of Homosexuality, but its not up to me to decided if they have the right to or not! There is only two people they have to answer to and that is theirself and god. Why don’t we stop focusing so much on what others are doing and focus on ourselves. Yeah the bible says alot of things, and one of those things is that there is only one GOD! So just do what you need to do to make him happy, and let him deal with everyone else!

By Gayfriendly

December 10, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

It is important we all understand that gays have right to want whatever they want and do something about it. If they want to call in gay they will do it and …NO they will NOT bet fired. Because the jobs that they are doing CANNOT be done by straight people. KNOW THIS……When it comes to BC s comments here is my answer to that. You are angry because your husband may be gay right? well too bad for you and I am sorry for you. But GET A LIFE. Find another one. He chose to be that way and you have to respect that. We can not judge people for their choices. God CAN and WILL. I believe GOD will not judge people based on their sexual preferences. My GOD can not be that way. I know amazing gay people who will be in front of many many straight people on judgement day…Believe me if they could choose…they would not be gay. Imagine reading this discussing comments against gays…why anyone would want to be gay if they could choose? They were created that way…GET IT?

By CoolHead

December 10, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

It is presumptous to think that people’s view of homosexuality would have change in the next 50 or 100 years. In the next 50 or 100 years, people will still have opposing views on lifestyles, religion and so forth. Look at race relations in this country or across the world. Fifty years after civil rights legislation, there are many who believe people of color are an inferior to others.

By Single Mom

December 10, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this

Just because many Georgians have different (more conservative) opinions and values than you do, that doesn’t make them “ignorant.” Calling people who disagree with you “ignorant” says a lot more about your tolerance level (or lack thereof) than anything else.

I could care less what consenting adults do behind closed doors but I’m getting tired of the gay community beating me over the head with this. I will never vote “yes” to allowing homosexual “marriage,” no matter how much you protest or how many times you fail to show up to work and make me cover for you.

I’d suggest you aim for “civil unions.” That would, technically, give you all the rights you demand but would not infringe upon the “sanctity” of marriage.

By Cordesia

December 10, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this

Actually, the Bible does speak against homosexuality in at least two places. I will give you one: the book of Jude, first chapter beginning at the 5th verse reads “I desire to remind you, despite your knowing all things once for all time, that Jehovah (God), although he saved a people out of the land of Egypt, afterwards destroyed those not showing faith and the angels that did not keep their original position but forsook their own proper dwelling place he has reserved with eternal bonds under dense darkness for the judgment of the great day. So too Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities about them, after they in same manner as the foregoing ones had committed fornication excessively and gone out after flesh for unnatural use (man with man and woman with woman) are placed before us as a warning example by undergoing the judicial punishment of everlasting fire.” The cities of Sodom and Gomorrah is where the those who participated in perverse sexual acts (men with men and women with women and men and women with animals)and God destroyed them. If you read your scripture and get a clear understanding you will come to know where this sexual perversion originated from. It is not genetic or hereditary. It is a perverse spirit!

By Gayfriendly

December 10, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

It is important we all understand that gays have right to want whatever they want and do something about it. If they want to call in gay they will do it and. NO they will NOT bet fired. Because the jobs that they are doing CANNOT be done by straight people. KNOW THIS.When it comes to BC s comments here is my answer to that. You are angry because your husband may be gay right? well too bad for you and I am sorry for you. But GET A LIFE. Find another one. He chose to be that way and you have to respect that. We can not judge people for their choices. God CAN and WILL. I believe GOD will not judge people based on their sexual preferences. My GOD can not be that way. I know amazing gay people who will be in front of many many straight people on judgement day.Believe me if they could choose.they would not be gay. Imagine reading this discussing comments against gays.why anyone would want to be gay if they could choose? They were created that way…GET IT?

By Publius

December 10, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

I’m really enjoying the enlightened ones calling we Georgia ignorant and expressing their desire to see our “hate” destroyed (nice diversity). One says that if they were gay they would call in today. Notice the call is for those who are gay and support gays. Why don’t you call in gay? Interesting that you commitment ends here where you are not really taking a stand.

Guy or gal who wants to make abortion retroactive, we have a legal term for that; it is called murder. Thank you for proving just what abortion is.

By Cordesia

December 10, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

Actually, the Bible does speak against homosexuality in at least two places. I will give you one: the book of Jude, first chapter beginning at the 5th verse reads “I desire to remind you, despite your knowing all things once for all time, that Jehovah (God), although he saved a people out of the land of Egypt, afterwards destroyed those not showing faith and the angels that did not keep their original position but forsook their own proper dwelling place he has reserved with eternal bonds under dense darkness for the judgment of the great day. So too Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities about them, after they in same manner as the foregoing ones had committed fornication excessively and gone out after flesh for unnatural use (man with man and woman with woman) are placed before us as a warning example by undergoing the judicial punishment of everlasting fire.” The cities of Sodom and Gomorrah is where the those who participated in perverse sexual acts (men with men and women with women and men and women with animals)and God destroyed them. If you read your scripture and get a clear understanding you will come to know where this sexual perversion originated from. It is not genetic or hereditary. It is a perverse spirit!

By SoreLosers

December 10, 2008 9:40 AM | Link to this

Wow, what sore losers the gay folks in Cali are. Had the prop been defeated, and the opposition protested, you would have called them sore losers, gay bashers and whatnot. Marriage is between 1man/1woman, that is it. It is what the people of the USA have stated! Please do not use activist judges to settle these issues, leave it up to the PEOPLE!!

By Brian

December 10, 2008 9:40 AM | Link to this

This really should sum up the whole Bible debate. This is a line from a very famous West Wing clip.

“I’m interested in selling my youngest daughter into slavery as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. She’s a Georgetown sophomore, speaks fluent Italian, always cleared the table when it was her turn. What would a good price for her be?

While thinking about that, can I ask another? My chief of staff, Leo McGarry, insists on working on the sabbath. Exodus 35:2 clearly says he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself, or is it OK to call the police?

Here’s one that’s really important cuz we’ve got a lot of sports fans in this town. Touching the skin of a dead pig makes one unclean. Leviticus 11:7. If they promise to wear gloves, can the Washington Redskins still play football? Can Notre Dame? Can West Point?

Does the whole town really have to be together to stone my brother John for planting different crops side-by-side? Can I burn my mother in a small family gathering for wearing garments made from two different threads?

Think about those questions, would you?

By American

December 10, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

Everyone “GET IT.” Multiple posting does not make your argument stronger. GET IT.

By I didn't know

December 10, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

Oh no, I called in sick today. Are people going to think I’m gay? Not that there is anything wrong with that, but there is this girl in my office that I wanted to hook up with.

By Sally Forth

December 10, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this

RWL - Don’t take me wrong, honey, I’m just here to help: since the construction business is so slow right now, you are probably in need of some side work - would you style my hair and arrange a bouquet for me today? I’ll be glad to drive to your place - I’m free after 11:00.

By Singlemom

December 10, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

Please give me one goood valid reason why I shouldn’t have the same rights as you. Then I will leave you alone.

By Hank Rearden

December 10, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

Why the moderator’s comments at the end about “closely monitoring” this blog? Why does a gay topic get more monitoring than any other one? Isn’t that a violation of equal protection?

By At work today

December 10, 2008 9:48 AM | Link to this

I think many people have totally missed the point. The point of “calling in gay” was to show just how much gay people participate in the world, and how there would be a gap if gays were not in society, just like anyone else. Gays go to work, pay taxes, etc., just like anyone else. To the person who said gays are mostly in political and entertainment industries apparently has no idea. Gays teach our kids, heal the sick, defend your rights, and defend our country just like many straight people. It is disappointing to see all the ignorance and hate…especially over a topic that is nobody else’s business. Tell me, those who disapprove, how would allowing the lesbian or gay couple next door to have their civil rights (i.e., to be next-of-kin, to function together, etc.) really hurt you?

By time for the truth

December 10, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

This whole thing is utterly pathetic. Homosexuals deservedly lost ANOTHER vote in liberal Kalifornia and have been screeching about it ever since.

I am a very secular politically conservative agnostic. I have NO respect for asinine religious dogma, but I respect the right of folks to believe whatever they want — so long as the actual beliefs are logically and rationally examined.

The hilarious thing is that it was staunchly liberal voting blacks in CA who made the glorious defeat possible, yet the cowardly homosexuals ONLY attack their soft (white) target religious opponents, physically and politically. Knocking crosses out of old ladies arms and anonymously sending threatening white powder envelopes to certain (white) churches. They say and do NOTHING to the 70% of blacks who sensibly voted down the warped notion of “homosexual marriage”.

The more shrill homosexuals have the unmitigated gall to attempt to equate homosexual marriage with the vile Jim Crow laws. Such moral and intellectual dishonesty is so typical of enervated lefties.

As for calling in homosexual? Anyone who does this in my business today will be fired on the spot, with as little payoff as is legally permissible.

The country is SICK AND TIRED of homosexuals trying to force folks to accept whatever they demand. Tolerance and civil unions to ensure reasonable ‘legal’ equality is one thing. Forced acceptance and so called homosexual marriage is anathema to clear thinking folks!!!

By Hellbent

December 10, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Cordesia; Yes, this is mentioned in the “Old Testament”. However, the tenets of “Christianity” are found in the “New Testament”. This is what separates “Christians” from Jews. Because of “Jesus”, who supposedly died for your sins, all of the “Old Testament” laws were overthrown. The “lamb of god” was a blood sacrifice for all of your sins, thereby negating the old laws.

As a Buddhist, I find it enormously humorous watching “christians” distort the words of the person whom they base their religion on.

By lantana

December 10, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

BC, Have you ever been to a zoo or farm? Homosexual behavior in animals is conducted all the time. Just last year a pair of male flamingos took an egg from an inattentive mother and incubated and raised the chick themselves. It was a beatuiful and loving family unit.

Sorry your husband is gay. Guess what? He didn’t suddenly just wake up that way. He lied to you and himself before you were married. Poor sap!

By Samantha

December 10, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

That is completely crazy! I’M SO SICK AND TIRED OF GAY PEOPLE COMPARING BEING AFRICAN-AMERICAN WITH BEING GAY AS BEING THE SAME THING!!! HELLOOOOOOOOO??? IT’S NOT! A PERSON HAS NO CHOICE AS TO WHAT RACE OR SEX THEY ARE BORN, BUT WE DO HAVE A CHOICE AS TO WHOM OR WHAT WE DECIDED TO HAVE SEX WITH!!!! IT’S AN ABOMINATION AGAINST GOD AND MANKIND PERIOD!!! SICK! SICK! SICK!

They can call out all they want, but the way things are going now they may want to NOT do that…they may find themselves unemployed tomorrow!

By Lynn

December 10, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

Ha HA Ha - - “I wouldn’t want to be you on judgement day”. That’s so crazy- Only god can judge- The same rule you judge with is the same rule you shall be judged with. I hope you have never committed a sin.

The same people against gay marriage are the same ones who will support a President that breaks all rules of law and god- Bush had the most people executed while governor (Thou shall not Kill), Attack countries for oil rather( against the Geneva convention), against abortion but there are 14000 unwanted kids in Georgia alone. So please with your rants about god. Just in case you didn’t know Jesus and God are about love and not hate such as yourself. These are the same people who had ancestors that used the bible to enslave people.

By Amber

December 10, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Special privileges? No one is asking for special privileges! Just the same rights that the rest of God’s children received.

By Jeff

December 10, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

We’re having a business lunch in Buckhead today - I wonder if we’ll have to serve our own food since the wait staff will be taking the day off.

By CJ

December 10, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

I am gay and I support A Day Without Gays. In fact, I also support the growing movement towards banning Divorce in all 50 states. That’s right - to protect the sanctity of marriage, I support eliminating divorce so that children can grow up with both a Mommie and Daddy, no matter what.

By American

December 10, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this

To: At work today.
Many understand their argument but disagree with the way they are choosing today to make their point. If the intent is to show that they are contributing members of society by removing themselves one day from their job is somewhat hypocritical. Who will pay attention to this one-day stance but employers whose production is lower or employees who have to fill in for them. If they are going to remove themselves from employment for one day, why not all places in the communities. Stay home. Do not drive your cars, ride buses, go to stores, look at TV, use the internet. Do nothing as if you do not exist, as you will be doing today.

By AJ

December 10, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

BC - Your poor children. You’re teaching them fiction. Adam & Eve are fiction. You really think 2 people just magically came to Earth and populated it? Let’s just say they did. Adam and Eve would have children and those children would procreate? Um, when have brothers and sisters been able to procreate and not have medical problems? Or did that not start to later on? If there’s an Adam and Eve, then you’re related to everyone. GAYS, BLACKS, HOMELESS PEOPLE and everyone else you hate. But alas, you’re not related because this world is inhabited with people because of EVOLUTION NOT CREATIONISM or whatever that fictional phrase is. Be logical. Just because your pastor tells you there’s an Adam & Eve doesn’t make it so. The phrase “Ignorance is Bliss” is used often. It’s a horrible phrase. Ignorance is why there is so much hate in this country and the world.

By Peadawg

December 10, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

By Amber December 10, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this Special privileges? No one is asking for special privileges! Just the same rights that the rest of God’s children received.

Calling off just because you’re gay isn’t a special privilege? Please!!! I can’t call off just because I’m straight.

By The Munk

December 10, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this

I have only one comment “He who is without sin cast the first stone”. No one sin is greater than the other. We will all be in the same line; waiting to see is we pass “GO” and enter the Pearly Gates. I am a Christian and you so called Christians use religion to be little people when they don’t conform. God created all of us in his image and we are all different. If you Christians would learn to love others that are not the same as you; this world would be a better place. Or on Judgment Day someone just might pass you in line. God is Love and What Would Jesus DO? I know he would not turn his back on any man or say some of the cruel things that have been said in this blog. Christians are so quick to tell others where they are going in the afterlife but they may need to take time to check their reservations because it might not be to the destination of choice. Love is the answer.

By Andrewk829

December 10, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

I have no further interest in reading or contributing to a forum like this given that the level of the discourse on it is barely worthy of an elementary school playground. I’m going back to the Wall Street Journal and New York Times. Peace out.

By Hellbent

December 10, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

Here’s something to think about: The whole foundation of your belief system is based on a fairy-tale. Do you honestly believe that god created the universe in 7 days? Do you honestly believe that god “created” us for his pleasure? I can’t think of anything more narcissistic than a god who “creates” humans to be his play-toys. Who expects us to submit to him totally, and is vengeful and hateful towards us if we don’t.

I have no doubt that a man named Jesus lived over 2000 years ago and had some amazing teachings. However, the rest of this has to be made up. You can’t really believe all of this mumbo-jumbo can you? If you do, then I only have one thing to say to you….Baaaaaa

By Peadawg

December 10, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this

By AJ December 10, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

Why am I ignorant because I believe in Creationism? What makes you better than me because you believe something I don’t?

By Mike Vick

December 10, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this

YEP.

By The Munk

December 10, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

I have only one comment “He who is without sin cast the first stone”. No one sin is greater than the other. We will all be in the same line; waiting to see is we pass “GO” and enter the Pearly Gates. I am a Christian and you so called Christians use religion to be little people when they don’t conform. God created all of us in his image and we are all different. If you Christians would learn to love others that are not the same as you; this world would be a better place. Or on Judgment Day someone just might pass you in line. God is Love and What Would Jesus DO? I know he would not turn his back on any man or say some of the cruel things that have been said in this blog. Christians are so quick to tell others where they are going in the afterlife but they may need to take time to check their reservations because it might not be to the destination of choice. Love is the answer.

By AJ

December 10, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

To Samantha (and others with similar views):

YOU ARE IGNORANT. And I guarantee if your beliefs are that you will go to heaven or hell, that your hatred will be dealt with on judgment day. If you hate a gay, you will be punished. Remember - hate the sin, love the sinner. That means you must love the gays.

By Singlemom

December 10, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

Jeff - yes, that is probably true. You will have to serve your own lunch today, because all wait staff in Buckhead are gay.

Sorry, you should have planned a luncheon yesterday or tomorrow.

By William

December 10, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

Moderator’s note: This blog will be closely monitored and inappropriate comments will be removed.

The above obviously isn’t happening..

By Sickening

December 10, 2008 10:08 AM | Link to this

This is sickening. How stupid can you get? If I was gay (which I am not), I’d be embarrassed by this stupid stuff. Quit shoving your sexuality down our throats. Sexual orientation is a private matter and should be KEPT private. God have mercy on your souls!

By Setting It Straight

December 10, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

Browneyes,

The Bible DOES denounce homosexuality as follows:

Leviticus 18:22: “Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable.”

Leviticus 20:13: “If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.”

Judges 19:24: Even Sodom, in his sinfulness, was willing to give us his daughters to other men, but stated “But to this man, don’t do such a disgraceful thing.”

Romans 1:26-27: “Because of this (sexual impurity in verse 24) God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.”

The study notes for Romans 1:26-27 state: “Homosexual practice is sinful in God’s eyes. The Old Testament also condemns the practice.”

My quotes are taken directly from the New International Version (NIV).

In summary, Browneyes is twisting the gospel to suit her preferences. She is correct that we should not judge others. However, homosexuality is clearly wrong, as indicated in the above verses.

By American

December 10, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Creation versus evolution. Obviously it is hard for you to believe in God creating mankind but easy to believe in the Big Bang Theory, which means mankind evolve from fins to lungs. Geez….

By Abomination

December 10, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this

If you want to use “God-given rights” as an excuse to be “that way”, maybe you should read Genesis, verses 18-19 about Sodom and Gomorrah. Homosexuality is an ABOMINATION, but you want to CELEBRATE it?

By White Man

December 10, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

I am going to call off because I am a white man. I want my privelages back. It seems like the gays and minorities get all the special treatment these days. This just sickens me. Why can’t I hae anything? We don’t even control the country anymore. What is this world coming to? Somebody answer that for me!

By J

December 10, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

“A Day Without Gays” should be every day

By Ron Mexico

December 10, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

why dont “YOU PEOPLE” call in gay everyday? it would make the world a better place.

By tab

December 10, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

I only have one thing to say the bible does speak about homosexual’s will not inherit God’s kingdom

By Hellbent

December 10, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

Setting It Straight: You obviously didn’t read my post earlier about the difference between the “Old” and “New” Testaments. The old laws were overthrown by Jesus’ sacrifice. Or, don’t you believe that? If you don’t then you’re jewish and not christian.

By Read It

December 10, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this

@AJ…If you read up on genetics, not EVERY child born to brothers/sisters/cousins is born with a problem. In fact, MOST are very healthy and perfectly normal physically. It’s a rareity that one has a problem. You read too many emails and junk sites about kids born to sisters/brothers having webbed-feet, etc. Read the FACTS, then get back to me.

By Chris

December 10, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

To Sickening- “Sexual orientation is a private matter”.

No it is not. Sex is a private matter. But when you see my boyfriend and I in the grocery store or at the Braves game or the aquarium, then that shows that the orientation is appropriately public. I am free to choose to be with whomever I want, and I am also free to express that love openly.

By Rusty Pecker

December 10, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

I bet Buckhead is a ghost town today. When is “call in colored” day? That’s the one I am looking forward to.

By The Truth

December 10, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

Along other more serious problems, gays have a huge PR problem.

First, they stage disgusting parades in major metros wearing disgusting sexually perverted costumes—yet claim they are just like everybody else. (All decent people and children should take cover.) “Everybody else” doesn’t engage in such behavior. I never heard a gay person speak out against such behavior either.

Second, as evidenced in this blog, they claim to want “tolerance” but exhibit theirs by bashing Christians, Christianity, Almighty God, and religious people in general. You may not like what the Bible says about homosexuality, why Sodom and Gomorrah were totally destroyed, etc., but your argument is not with Christians but with the Sovereign God.

Personally, I wouldn’t want to argue with Him.

Third, this “call in gay” day simply underscores the fact that you indeed are not like everyone else. Guess what: we already knew.

By American

December 10, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

White man, the questions you posed or the problems you have cannot be answered on this blog. Obviously, you have some personal and/or mental health issues that needs addressing. Please contact your local community service board. From this point on, you will be ignore - a state of existance that you are all to familiar with.

By Gman

December 10, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

The bible does not condone homosexuality any more than it condones any other sin (adultry, fornication, stealing,etc.). The answer is the same for all: Christ, repentance, turning from the sin.

NEW TESTAMENT Reading for Today:

Romans 1:21-27 21For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools 23and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles. 24Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen. 26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.

By Blue Devil

December 10, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

I say let gays marry and be miserable like the rest of us :) However, taking a day off when unemployment is at 7% is an insult to those without the opportunity to work.

By Josh Payne

December 10, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

I hear PetsMart is celebrating too… 50% off all gerbils in the store. Obama ‘08

By An Engineer

December 10, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this

There will be very few (if any) folks calling in “gay” here — being that my job is at a defense contractor. Combine the generally-conservative nature of engineers and the type of industry, gays don’t gravitate to this type of job. Anyhow, an unauthorized absence will get you fired.

By Hellbent

December 10, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this

Here’s another thing to consider: the “bible” was written by men who, like you, had their own “agenda” to convey. Men who, are just as fallible as you. So, can you really sit there and say that you know all the answers? Can you really sit there and spew forth your hatred, knowing this? I for one, am glad that I don’t have anything to do with “Christianity”, from what I’ve seen, it’s nothing more than a platform for the diarrhea of hatred and ignorance.

By American

December 10, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

Since America is a melting pot - consisting of all races, creed, cultures,and nationalities - colored day would be eveyday. Sometimes people attempt at offense failed but it is so after awhile it gets old. People no longer cares. Just schooling you.

By Dave

December 10, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

Damn. I scheduled today off from work for a doctor’s appointment. Now all my co-workers are going to think I’m gay. I can’t believe this is happening to me. At least none of the other gay people are there to see that I’m out today. I guess I’ll be safe in the office men’s room unless some of the straight guys come after me. I am so screwed either way …

By Dr. Vajajay

December 10, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Gay. Some Newborns are born with two sets of genitalia. The Doctor has to make a choice. (to snip, or not to snip). Then, hormonal tides, hymnal tithes, and him/her towels are supposed to shape the outcome of the individual as a man or woman. This system has worked well so far, and it forms the basis for every panty raid in every college dorm in the country (for the last twenty seven years).

Gay. I have eight brothers and sisters. Two are gay. I dont love them any less, and I dont presume to judge them. I’m content to let judgement day inform me.

Meanwhile, I enjoy my family. We are a good family and a big family with countless grandkids, still living grandparents, and very fat aging baby boomers.

Havent we persecuted each other enough? Lets pick a new thing to hate over. Skin color is out. Sex is out. How about this unjustified war in Iraq?

Now that’s worth arguing about.

By tab

December 10, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

to white man that’s what wrong with the world people like you think the world only belong to you because your skin is white, how sad, God created everthing he created in color,why would you think he would make his most pride and glory,the same color. as you know he made man in his image.think about what you just said,and see how it makes nosense

By American

December 10, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this

I am only responding because God commands us to be kind to baby and fools. You have no country. It is quite obvious that you do not know the history of this country. By the way, it that the best you can do?

By ClemsonDude

December 10, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this

They are those idiots that think being gay is a choice. Please pull your head out of your a$$. Thank you.

By Thankful to have a job!

December 10, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

It is amazing to me that we only care about the impact of homosexuals; what about the impact heterosexuals have in this world and on this economy. With the way unemployment is and for as many that are desperately needing jobs, it is irresponsible and ungrateful for anyone to leave their job just trying to prove a point about their sexuality. There are enough people that would love that job the homosexuals are skipping out on just to make a point!!!!!!

By Texas Pete

December 10, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this

I’m going to call in to work as a straight white male that is married with children. I might throw in the fact that I work hard, pay my taxes, and save for the future. Eventually I know that I will be in the minority and will be able to start collecting from all that discriminate against me.

By Not the truth

December 10, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

Along other more serious problems, heterosexuals have a huge PR problem.

First, they participate in disgusting Mardi Gras festivals where women take off their tops and women do oral on guys in broad daylight..and don’t get me started on all of the spring break videos out there. Then there are straight couples that do it in a church for the pleasure of radio stations (All decent people and children should take cover.) “Everybody else” doesn’t engage in such behavior. I never hear straight people condemn Mardi Gras or Spring break..I just assume that all straight people act like that.

Second, as evidenced in this blog, they claim to want “tolerance of their religious views” but have no problem, imposing their religious mythology on secular laws.

By the way, any true Biblical scholar will tell you that the lesson of Sodom and Gamorrah had to do with the lack of hospitality, not homosexuality. Not that anyone intelligent believes any of that bible garbage anyway.

I won’t be calling in gay, even though I am gay, because I like my job and enjoy all of the straight underlings I get to boss around all day..plus I make a lot of money, as is typical of most of us gay folks, probably more than the rest of you breeders on here.

Of course, the straight folks can call in with kiddie problems any time they want to.

By Joe

December 10, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this

Man, I hate Christians. Largest group of judgmental hypocrites on Earth.

By White Man

December 10, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this

Amen Texas Pete!

By AJ

December 10, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

Oh “Read It” - whether what you say is true or not - and I don’t have enough interest in genetics to read up on it - the whole process of 2 people populating a world with billions where some are very dark with curly hair, some are not quite so dark and have eyes shaped differently, etc is laughable. I’ll go with science, you go with fiction. We’re entitled to different views even if one is proven wrong. It’s sad that with proven facts, some don’t believe what’s staring them in the face. They learned it on Sunday so it MUST be true. When I watch TV with my satellite dish, I understand the science of it. I know it’s not magic.

By Hellbent

December 10, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

It is a proven sociological fact that the people who are most vehemently against homosexuality are, in fact, gay themselves. They are just too ashamed to admit it.

By AJ

December 10, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

AMEN JOE!!

By White Man

December 10, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

The clinics are going to be very busy today.

By time for the truth

December 10, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

On the one hand we have the usual dogmatic religious NUTTERS spewing the usual empty, unsupported religious assertion drivel. On the other we have the shrill homosexuals and their leftist apologists hysterically demanding tolerance in the face of their often quite rabid intolerance.

The bible and the koran are man made drivel, culled ENTIRELY from previous religious drivel/myth and legend. Which often contradicts actual scientific facts and logic. With often garbled (self serving) versions of ancient history thrown in to better serve the grasping clerical types.

THE FOLKS - including 70% of blacks, a truly awkward fact that the more screechy homosexuals always dishonestly ignore - VOTED NO IN KALIFORNIA!!

POWER TO THE PEOPLE!!!!

So called homosexual marriage is a disgusting attempt to undermine marriage, a pretty noble institution that has existed for thousands of years among normal folks who fully understand its between a man and a woman. Marriage was an entrenched social building block for normal folks long before the dogmatic papists arrogantly and arbitrarily decreed in the very appropriately named Dark Ages that divorce was “illegal” and a sin etc.

By dittohead

December 10, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

By KeepingItReal

December 10, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

Stating that people who vehemently oppose homosexuals are gays themselves is short-sighted and/or slanted. People have strong opinons about several controversial issues, which were they learned from parents, society, religious beliefs, personal convictions and so forth. Many times beliefs are not formed from fear but from informed and uniformed informations/opinions.

By White Man

December 10, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

If you can’t procreate (with the exception of a medical/health issue), it is not natural, POINT BLANK. Go get your brain checked out, because something is wrong.

By Daniel Carver

December 10, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this

the coloreds have a “be late to work day” everyday of the week. awwww.. the poor babies, they dont like to get up early! maybe president obama will make “CPT” legal for them. WAKE UP WHITE PEOPLE

By ClearMind

December 10, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

Straight people have done a real bang-up job with marriage anyway. More than half end in divorce. Man up, breeders, make a commitment and stick to it. And keep your cheating noses out of my business. Who are you to say that someone else cannot get married? I’m sure God is so proud of you all. Judgment day is going to be a real surprise!

By time for the truth

December 10, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

@ Hellbent

Give up your pathetic LIES @ being a bloody Bhuddist!!! Your lack of detachment and dogmatic, aggressive judgment of others shows you are NOT anywhere near attaining nirvana (not the crappy Seattle grunge version) or enlightenment. Illusion has got yer by yer smug Tibetan bells (gedditt??)

As for loathing poofs - this, as U doltishly assert does NOT mean one is a (closet) poof because one condemns them for their shrill intolerance and perversions. I steadfastly and proudly condemn ze pooftahs for their hatred, hate speech, intolerance, hypocrisy, perversions and arrogance. Most of them are liberals and that’s the other OBVIOUS ‘mandatory’ reason to despise them!!!

By CoolHead

December 10, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

Aww… still mad that we are “moving on up.” Love it. Victory is so sweet, nothing can upset us now. Go for it. You are mad all by your lonesome. Hey!!!!!!!

By mwc

December 10, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

Hey Read It…I guess that makes it ok….??? HUH!!

By homophobic

December 10, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

why stop at a day, I think they should lay out for a whole year… no wait, 5yrs.

By time for the truth

December 10, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this

Bwarney Fwank says that homosexuality is an excellent way of widening the circle of your friends!!

Backs to the wall everyone!!!

By Malibu

December 10, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this

I think I’ll call in “straight”

By CJ

December 10, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this

BAN DIVORCE! PROTECT THE SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN, NO MATTER WHAT!

Ha! Yall should be stuck with one another since we gays can’t get married. Imagine: children will always have both parents. No more need for divorce court or lawyers. No more prenup’s. The benefits are countless!

By Hellbent

December 10, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

time for the truth: It is you who is living a lie.

By Debbie Kline

December 10, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Marriage is more than simply sexual parts. Parts fitting or not fitting is not the issue. Marriage is a committment between two individuals who vow to share the good and bad times and take care of one another. Employers and insurance companies will not allow benefits to partners unless they are Married. This is true for all partners caring for one another: siblings, cousins, heterosexuals in states without common-law. Marriage is necessary for benefits! I can vow to love my partner forever,but I also want to look out for the benefits I can provide.

By Scott Wallace

December 10, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

Why did all the Geoergia fans not show up to work today at my office???

Where is WTF???

By Gainesville Guy

December 10, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

There is no legal basis to prohibit two consenting adult humans from coming together in a legal union. That having been said, “calling in gay” is just further proof that the gay community’s worst enemies are the professional gay activists.

By mwc

December 10, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

To Not the truth…YOU ARE SO GAY!!!!

By Jimbo

December 10, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

@ people who think you can voting NO to prop 8 settles the issue.

I’m sure few if any of you have read the California constitution, the Georgia constitution, or the US constitution, but in the specific case of prop 8 in california, whether they vote yes or no the proposition and it’s predecessor and most laws like these are blatantly unconstitutional. You can’t deny civil rights based on your feelings about something. The 1st amendment of our bill of rights says “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof” The only caveat on that right is if the exercise of that religion is harming the rights of another and clearly they are not harming anyone’s rights by getting married. If you honestly believe they are, well.. you are probably too weak to exist on this planet and I pity you. Let me put it to you like this. If a majority of people weren’t christian and you were (as so many of you delightfully claim to be) and they decided that christians couldn’t marry, couldn’t adopt children, or that they couldn’t practice their religion or live a life according to christian ideals (most of you wouldn’t have any issue on that one because it wouldn’t affect you anyway) how would you like it? I’m sorry so many of you don’t appreciate the rights our constitution affords us and I’m annoyed that more of you don’t understand how the three branches of government check and balance each other, but these days I really can’t fault you for that. This would be a much better nation is people minded their own business and let others live their lives.

By time for the truth

December 10, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

hellbent

ANYONE with ANY actual knowledge of and ‘adherence’ to Bhuddism would NOT puke up the lies and garbage U have!!!

Look up the sanskrit word maya or read about it in the Upanishads.

Simplistically maya means “illusion”, but its way more than (just) that.

U’re just yet another in a huge line of sad nasty lying lefty liberals!!

By At work today

December 10, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

Hmm…at first glance, some of the comments were disappointing. Now, they are hilarious. Some of today’s posters have not only demonstrated their bigotry, but they’ve also demonstrated how much they do NOT know about the gay community. This board reflects why the general public has no business voting on who is allowed to visit me when I’m dying in the hospital, who I have the right to love, or who I am allowed to live my life with…legally.

By Mara

December 10, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

I don’t buy the argument that gays are being denied equal rights. Gays have the same right that everyone else has, the right to marry a person opposite-sex. I, as a heterosexual don’t have the right to marry a female, so what equal rights are being denied?

By chuck

December 10, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

Marriage is a contract; to disallow same sex couples the right to marriage is unconstitutional (period). If you wanted to protect marriage, you should have done that already. Shall we look to Abraham, the great patriarch, who slept with his servant when he discovered his beloved wife Sarah was infertile? Or to Jacob, who fathered children with four different women (two sisters and their servants)? Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon and the kings of Judah and Israel. Jesus himeself was single and preached an indifference to earthly attachments—especially family. The apostle Paul (also single) regarded marriage as an act of last resort for those unable to contain their animal lust. “It is better to marry than to burn with passion,” says the apostle, in one of the most lukewarm endorsements of a treasured institution ever uttered.

Last but not least, we are a democracy, not a theocracy. The laws that I follow should allow for a contractual agreement for marriage, if you want to keep us from getting married then keep gay men and women out of your churches, that’s the christian thing to do. Sound crazy? Exactly!

By time for the truth

December 10, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

hellbent

ANYONE with ANY actual knowledge of and ‘adherence’ to Bhuddism would NOT puke up the lies and garbage U have!!!

Look up the sanskrit word maya or read about it in the Upanishads.

Simplistically maya means “illusion”, but its way more than (just) that.

U’re just yet another in a huge line of sad nasty lying lefty liberals!!

By Setting It Straight

December 10, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Hellbent,

Romans is in the NEW Testament! Take a minute to read Gman’s “New Testament Reading for Today”.

I have gay neighbors who are good neighbors. We are friendly with each other.

My wife and I explain to our kids, who have asked why the two guys “do not have a mommy” at home, that homosexuality (nothing obscene) is wrong. We also explain that my brother-in-law’s smoking and sometimes heavy drinking, and other sins, including some of our own, are wrong.

I have also worked with gay coworkers from other offices of my company. Nobody flaunts it; everyone just gets the job done. Keep your personal sexual affairs where they belong - at home!

By Hellbent

December 10, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

time for the truth: ANYONE with ANY actual knowledge of and ‘adherence’ to Christianity would NOT puke up the lies and garbage U have!!!

By tab

December 10, 2008 11:50 AM | Link to this

Just wanted to say I thought the comments you make would be printed, but I see only the ones you choose. My last one did not post, I guess because it made to much sense.May we have peace love and happiness for each other, being we are all human,and GOD loves us all. peace

By heather

December 10, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

since when did marriage become only a “contract?” no wonder the institution of marriage is undervalued!

By BC needs an education...

December 10, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

BC: Animals are known to be homosexual. There is an entire zoo in Europe devoted to gay animals. It occurs in the natural world, and some animals are also trans-sexual. Try opening a text book and not the Bible for some factual information next time. :)

By Brian

December 10, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

Setting it straight your comment “Keep your personal sexual affairs where they belong - at home!”….

Whoever said anything about sex? There seems to be a misconception between sex and love with you.

I just don’t understand how love between 2 people can be considered wrong.

By Jimbo

December 10, 2008 12:05 PM | Link to this

Heather, marriage has always been a contract. Initially it wasn’t between a man and a woman but a man and a woman’s father. It was a business arrangement or a strategic alliance between families. The concept of marrying for love is a relatively recent development. As far as I can tell the religious attachments to marriage come from wanting them to bless the contract (which let’s face it, the church used to bless everything, business arrangements, soldiers in battle, ships, buildings.. it was a revenue stream for them, like selling artifacts or taking tithes) and make it holy holy so it’d have more value to those living out the contract. If it were more than a contract at its very core then a justice of the peace wouldn’t be able to carry them out and you wouldn’t have to get a license to do it.

By Peadawg

December 10, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this

Expecting to be able to call in today just b/c you’re gay doesn’t sound like equal rights…it sounds like special rights!!!

By Rake

December 10, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this

I love my neighbor.

I think gay is wrong and immoral.

Gays are gay because they “feel” gay.

I “feel” other wrong and immoral desires - but I obstain from them because I read the bible and believe what is says about how I should behave. Love thy neighbor (treat them with respect) but is also says to call sin ..sin and I just did.

now, stop reading this blog and either get back to work or go help at a homeless shelter.

By flaming hetrosexual

December 10, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

Lev. 18:22 states the principle: “You [masculine] shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination” (NRSV). The second (Lev. 20:13) adds the penalty: “If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall be put to death; their blood is upon them.”

Jesus said he did NOT come to CHANGE the law.

By sharon

December 10, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

The holy sanctity of marriage is between a man and a women. this is what the folks against gay marriage say. they say God and the Bible intended marriage to be between and a man and a woman. But HE also said til death do you part. why when we look to religion and the bible do you only quote the parts that pertain to you. if you want to preserve marriage then dont allow divorce. you allow celebs and others to marry people they have only known for 24 hours but if someone is with a person of the same sex for 15 years they cannot marry and have the same rights. i know someone who married his sisters friend so her kids could have insurance. they dont live together they are not in love yet they have the “right” to marry. Is this what God intended? STOP THE HATRED AND BIGOTRY

By TRUTH

December 10, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

Being gay or not is a choice. It doesn’t warrant any special concessions. Being gay is immoral, and has already been judged by GOD himself! If you want to be gay so be it, but don’t try to justify a perversion that will be severely punished (Sodom and Gomorrah). There is a difference between being treated fairly, and being forced to tolerate open perversions. If you stay in the closet, you won’t have problems like this one. Anybody with a conscience of decency would avoid a deviant. If you come out of the closet, you are shouting loud to the world that you are freaky. Move to _ollywood, you’d fit in.

By American

December 10, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

WARNING: PROLONG READING AND/OR COMMENTING TO THIS BLOG WILL DECREASE YOUR IQ SIGNIFICATLY. PEACE OUT

By flaming hetrosexual

December 10, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this

I liked you all a lot better when you stayed in the closet and didnt have those stupid parades.

work, dont work…. nobody really cares!

By making

December 10, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

TO: BC, NH, naydooh, zeke, samantha, J, Ron Mexico, White man and Mara

I will pray for you.

TO: Clearmind, At work today, Chris and Hellbent

Excellent comments.

TO: time for the truth

You are SO GAY.

By time for the truth

December 10, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

hellbent

you’re a sad and inadequate liberal NUTTER!!!

The bible and the koran are overwhelmingly poisonous, wholly man made drivel. With historical/scientific/factual absurdities and rabid ignorance of how the world works.

Try reading some irrefutable facts/logic in:

Why I Am NOT a Mohammedan by Ibn Warraq

The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins

god is NOT GREAT by Christopher Hitchens

The End Of Faith by Sam Harris

At least you’ve stopped with the pathetic I’m a Bhuddist LIES!!!

to all christians:

Jesus IS DEAD!!! He was killed by the Italians … It gave them something to do over Easter — a truly PAGAN festival shamlessly ripped off by christians!!

By The gaybasher

December 10, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

To Gaybasher, Why would I put my life and my future in the hands of people like you? That’s what happened in California. So much bigotry. To start, this should have never been in a ballott. Being gay is not an option or choice, in case you did not know. Why asking you or anyone on many of the issues that are affecting our lives are being discriminated? Oh, this could go on….

By sudo

December 10, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Animals are stupid, people should know better.

By The antigaybasher

December 10, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

To Gaybasher, Why would I put my life and my future in the hands of people like you? That’s what happened in California. So much bigotry. To start, this should have never been in a ballott. Being gay is not an option or choice, in case you did not know. Why asking you or anyone on many of the issues that are affecting our lives are being discriminated? Oh, this could go on….

By kitty

December 10, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

This stunt is great! Now I know all my co workers who did not show up are Gay! What a great piece of info this is. BTW—I called in Hetero. LOL—-who thought this crap up????

By homophobic

December 10, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this

I would spend the rest of my life all alone rather than be gay if those were my two choices, at least I would spend eternity in paradise after its all said and done.

By scrappy

December 10, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this

From a legal agrument, I don’t see how the laws and amendments to the states’ constitutions are valid. I also don’t believe it should be left up to the people to vote on this type of issue, it should be up to the courts.

If you replace “gay” with “red-heads”: It shall be against the state constitution to allow red-heads to marry. (I know that is not how the law reads, but something to that affect)

I think we would all agree that red-heads are people too and deserve the same opportunities to a state marriage license as everyone else. State licenses and privledges provided have nothing to do with religion.

A person is smart, a mob is not, and mob mentality is at its best when issues such as these are put forth for a vote.

By Dondee

December 10, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

I didn’t call in “Gay”….I went in “Straight”…..Dumb idea…how does this stunt promote what they desire?

By Lucky

December 10, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

What do you call a 32 year old man that has never had sex with a woman??? Gay??? Jesus??? Something to think about. Gay people give up on trying to tell stupid straight people about being gay. They will never understand until their sons and daughters come home to tell them. I’m gay, proud, loyal, honest and would be your best friend if you allowed me to. I have learned that before I tell anyone that I”m gay I get to know them first. If they like me it’s hard for the to start hating me. We need to stop running around in dresses and start being productive in the community.

By Lucky

December 10, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this

What do you call a 32 year old man that has never had sex with a woman??? Gay??? Jesus??? Something to think about. Gay people give up on trying to tell stupid straight people about being gay. They will never understand until their sons and daughters come home to tell them. I’m gay, proud, loyal, honest and would be your best friend if you allowed me to. I have learned that before I tell anyone that I”m gay I get to know them first. If they like me it’s hard for the to start hating me. We need to stop running around in dresses and start being productive in the community.

By kitty

December 10, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

If you replace “redheads” with sheep it would make even more sense. But again, soon the beast lovers will want equal rights too! Man & sheep, woman & dog how special. After reading most of the tripe written here, it appears that the gays & gay lovers insist everyone believe as they do, to like them etc….if you don’t, you are wrong, a hater, a bigot. Funny, I thought we lived in America where opinions are allowed? Of course, we are rapidly becoming a police state and we all must believe the same thing all the time or be damned. I don’t like gays and I don’t believe in their cause. Its my right —too bad.

By Lucky

December 10, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

What do you call a 32 year old man that has never had sex with a woman??? Gay??? Jesus??? Something to think about. Gay people give up on trying to tell stupid straight people about being gay. They will never understand until their sons and daughters come home to tell them. I’m gay, proud, loyal, honest and would be your best friend if you allowed me to. I have learned that before I tell anyone that I”m gay I get to know them first. If they like me it’s hard for the to start hating me. We need to stop running around in dresses and start being productive in the community.

By time for the truth

December 10, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

@ making and other equally deranged religious NUTTERS …

After being outsmarted and beaten by awkward facts/logic puking up the tired old cliche “you’re so homosexual” merely evinces an obsessive compulsive homo-erotic crush on Eric Cartman and his ilk.

All the hateful bigoted poofs and religious NUTTERS truly deserve each other.

Indeed this is a “marriage” made in heaven - to quote an irrational deeply flawed cliche - gedditt??? (sardonic pun intended).

By mark

December 10, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

To: time for the truth

Go ahead and Mock God what do you have to lose at this point.

By Leon

December 10, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

Hey BC and all you other perverted stright sick individual, “Adam & Eve” is an adult book store that sale all Adult sexual material including Adult XXXX rated movies. BC check it out you may need some help sweete. A lot of stright people call in sick everyday just for a broken nail, so get over yourself A*#$%@. Hey BYTRUTH, you want a little of “Sodom and Gomorrah”. Let those who have not sin get over it and quite knocking “Gay People” this is not the dark ages and those who speak out are just covering up their on sex life so no one will discover them. Hey BC didn’t I see you at the Gay bar “The Eagle” downtown in Atlanta last Saturday night with the blond wig on. You sure make a pretty little things. Does your mom or wife no what you are doing when they are not around.

Signed: Get over it and mind your own business

By gadem

December 10, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

Gay is a choice plain and simple!!! If you choose to go to hell or live immorally, deal with the repercussions!!! Better yet, go and see a psychologist and face whatever problems you are trying to mask and run from…you were molested, beaten, or had other traumatic experiences in your life. Don’t burn in the pits of hell because you do not want to deal with the real issues. Just my thoughts…

By Emily

December 10, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

Havng moved here from Oregon with my husband, I must say some of you people scare me. I had no idea evolution skipped Georgia. I cannot wait to get back to civilization and leave this confederacy of dunces you all call the south far, far behind me and make this two year gig here a part of my past. Stop inbreeding, you have procreated enough with your siblings. HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By kitty

December 10, 2008 12:51 PM | Link to this

Leon: are you 12 or 13 years old???

By Charlie

December 10, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

Let’s let all the gays have their own state.
How about California, yeah why don’t all of you just move there.

By at work

December 10, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this

I’m gay and at work because I care about my patients, gay or straight!! You would be surprised at the number of healthcare workers that are gay. Physicians, nurses(male AND female), techs, administrators, chaplins!! Be careful who you bash. They may hold you life or your loved one’s life in their hands one day!

By godoggo

December 10, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this

Hey….in these times with the Economies health, if they want to take the chance of losing employment and finding work somewhere else…..go for it ! My problem is not acknowledging there behavior as normal and accepted, because it more than likely never will be by a majority. Let me say I have known, and have several friends that are gay/lesbian in my past. And I don’t have a problem with it…..only because as I have told them, that leaves more woman for me : )

Now with that said, my BIGGEST gripe is when the “gay men” try to Convince me that I am “really gay”, and just haven’t accepted it yet….WTF ?….that I have a BIG problem with. Because Nothing gives me more satisfaction (Did I say nothing?) than making a woman im attracted too……pull the headboard off the wall with joy !

Can I get an Amen ?

ps: And as for “God”…..i don’t care what “God” you worship….as long as it doesn’t hurt woman and children (figure it out)…then we have a Big Problem!

By BC

December 10, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this

I have a great idea…let’s include the Gay Pride Festival in with Freakneak and make it just one huge Freak Show!

By Buzz

December 10, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this

This is such a ridiculous argument. It has never been legal for homosexuals to marry. NEVER. So let’s not act like California is denying them a right. Get real and talk about some important issues for a change.

By Rusty Pecker

December 10, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

hey emily, please go back to oregon… and take some fruits and colored folk with ya. too many of “those people” around here.

By kitty

December 10, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

To Emily: I am not a native of GA but good ole liberal New England—but I still don’t believe in any part of a gay lifestyle. BTW—Do you need help packing?

By godoggo

December 10, 2008 1:04 PM | Link to this

*That is completely crazy! I’M SO SICK AND TIRED OF GAY PEOPLE COMPARING BEING AFRICAN-AMERICAN WITH BEING GAY AS BEING THE SAME THING!!! HELLOOOOOOOOO??? IT’S NOT! A PERSON HAS NO CHOICE AS TO WHAT RACE OR SEX THEY ARE BORN, BUT WE DO HAVE A CHOICE AS TO WHOM OR WHAT WE DECIDED TO HAVE SEX WITH!!!! IT’S AN ABOMINATION AGAINST GOD AND MANKIND PERIOD!!! SICK! SICK! SICK!

They can call out all they want, but the way things are going now they may want to NOT do that…they may find themselves unemployed tomorrow!

AMEN Samantha !

By LKDUFG

December 10, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this

men that want to marry men should do so women that want to marry women should do so people that want to abort babies should do so in three generations, there will be no democrats

By Allison

December 10, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

I heard someone this morning on the radio say that differnt groups want to be treated as equals; they do not want to be different, but days like these just draw everyones attention to you and keep you from being equals.

By Not the truth

December 10, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

Kitty,

When a sheep can stand up at an alter and say the words “I do” clearly, then maybe we should worry…but until then, your comparison of bestiality with an adult, consensual, same-sex relationship is just idiotic.

It’s funny how people like you never attribute any “human” characteristics to members of the animal kingdom until it comes to issues about gays.

By Tony

December 10, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

Too many dumb red necks in GA. They are ignorant , uneducated and dont have any common sense. All these stupid people know is what church tells them to do.

I bet lot of these gay bashers are perverts who probably beat their wifes and molest the kids. Shame on you low life scums

By making

December 10, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

to: time for the truth

You’re too sensitive. I’m a gay male, in a relationship for 19 years, have 9 siblings…two others are gay, 7 gay nephews and nieces, and I’m a republican. Oh yeah and I have two gay wiener dogs!

I don’t need a piece a paper to state, I’m married. I do need a law that will give me every financial benefit that a “married couple” receives.

The way to make a point for the gay community is via finance…not calling into work. If every gay person pulled their assets from the economy for ONE month…it would make everyone to take notice.

Being independent is power. We’ve been blessed financially both having good corporate jobs, starting our own business so we can retire before turning 55 in five years, and owning two homes. We are blessed.

Everyone should live their lives to the fulliest, love everyone equally no matter their views and treat everyone with respect.

Everyone won’t see eye to eye…I know this personally as I only speak to 4 out of my 9 siblings…none of the 4 are gay siblings. I don’t say bad things about anyone…I choose who I want in my life and live my life to the best of my ability.

Do onto others, as you would want others to do onto you. Life would be so simple if the hate could stop.

By Jason

December 10, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

If we had a ‘call-in if your judgemental and small minded day’ many of GA’s workers, and beyond, would be at home. It appears that many of you aren’t working anyway since you are writing comments online……maybe ya’ll are ALL gay! Thank God I am self employed,a homosexual, and make my own schedule.

By Loving Mom

December 10, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

To all those who believe homosexuality is a choice:

I am a straight mother of a gay son. I watched him grow, and I now know, beyond a shadow of doubt, that God made him that way. He suffered through middle school and still has to deal with people who mock him and discriminate against him because he is gay. Why? He is a wonderful person; smart, funny, strong and kind. He does not deserve to go through life without a partner that society recognizes as his own.

Yes, there are differences between racism and homophobia, but there are many things we learned from the civil rights movement that apply here as well. One is that the concept of “separate but equal” simply does not wash. The very fact of having separate rules for blacks and whites, even if they WERE equal, is wrong. In the same way, separate rules for partnered couples, even if they are equal,is also wrong. It sends the message that a minority group is not worthy to be included with the rest of society. It breaks my heart to see my wonderful son treated this way.

It makes me really sad to see the cruel jokes on this blog about “flower arranging and hair dressing.” Don’t you see that this is the point of the “call in gay” day? To point out that there are gay people that work in every kind of job. To raise awareness that gay people are your neighbors, your coworkers, and yes, your family.

One day you may be called upon to support a gay child in your own family. I hope that you will then understand that there is no one to blame. I strongly believe that one day people will realize that we are all God’s children and deserving of respect, no matter our race, religion, sex, sexual orientation or country of origin. Until that day comes, I will do what I can not to judge others for things they cannot control, and be as kind as I can be.

By ce

December 10, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

To Emily: We won’t miss you, and I’m not from here. First of all, just because the comments are make in a local paper does not mean all the commentors are from Georgia or the South. There are alot of transplants from other regions, who came with their own mindsets and believe system. I have been to Oregan and the loonies are all over the place. Bye, bye so long…rush on. Hate to see you come, love to see you leave.

By scrappy

December 10, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

The point is that weather or not you believe in the gay lifestyle, or if you think it is sin, or if you think they are freaks - your OPINION should not prevent others from enjoying the same privledges that we hetero’s enjoy.

You have every right to your opinion, and every right to express that opinion through the 1st amendment. The line is drawn when your opinion negatively affects others.

By The Industries

December 10, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this

I participated via a virtual call-in!

By taylor

December 10, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

love the sinner hate the sin

By sudo

December 10, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

You all picked a perfect day to have a econmic boycott, its raining like hell and I doubt anybody will be doing a lot of shopping anyway. I work for a very large company and its buisness as usual here.you may want to rethink your plan cause it isnt working.

By sudo

December 10, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

You all picked a perfect day to have a economic boycott, its raining like hell and I doubt anybody will be doing a lot of shopping anyway. I work for a very large company and its buisness as usual here. You may want to rethink your plan cause this one isnt working.

By Ed

December 10, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

First, I can’t see how it can be anything but counterproductive…especially after reading the reactions of some of you people. Regardless of the valid point that they are trying to get across, they are only bringing ridicule upon themselves.

Second, please don’t start quoting the Bible to me. If you’re going to decide that you want to live your life by the Bible, then fine…but don’t try to shove it down someone else’s throat. And, if it is an important enough document that it is worth quoting it to prove a point, then obviously the entire document should be followed, and you are not allowed to cherry-pick which scriptures should be followed in order to match your opinions.

So, of course it’s ok to have slaves(Leviticus 25:44-46 ). And women better be quiet and submissinve in church (Corinthians 14:34-35 ). Nothing wrong with rape as long as you pay the father and then marry the girl (Deuteronomy 22:28-29)…though of course if she doesn’t report it, she really should be stoned (Deuteronomy 22:23-24). Etc. etc.

Oh, and by the way, unless there were some strange family relations going on, just how did the Earth get populated after Adam, Eve, Cain, Abel & Seth? (I am going to resist the obvious Southern inbreeding joke here…although the results of that would certainly explain some of the opinions in these comments.)

So, anyway…keep your beliefs, but don’t force them on other people. Especially when you don’t even follow your own doctrine completely.

By making

December 10, 2008 1:24 PM | Link to this

Thanks “loving mom”!!!

One of my sister’s would try to keep her daughter and son from us gay siblings, so THEY wouldn’t be taught how to be gay. I said back then, God will punish her. Both of her children are gay and she’s now a very loving mother to both and a loving sister to me.

God didn’t punish her, he showed her his path for her children as he will show EVERYONE that HE has the wisdom for all.

By sudo

December 10, 2008 1:25 PM | Link to this

You may want to rethink your plan because this one doesnt seem to be working.

An economic boycott on a stormy wednesday. Who’s bright idea was that.

Hahahahaha.

By Think about this

December 10, 2008 1:25 PM | Link to this

**By BC

December 10, 2008 8:49 AM | Link to this

well I think my husband might be gay, that’s why I’m so damn angry! Why did god do this to me!! Why did my husband decide to be gay!! Is it me??**

Your husband did not “decide” to be gay. Many gay people have married to hide what they really feel just because of unaccepting people like you. They feel they cannot be who they really are because of persecution and ridicule.

Maybe God (if you believe him like you say you do, you would know to capitalize his name) is trying to teach you acceptance instead of bigotry.

Something to think about.

By The trutth

December 10, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

BC.. you couldn’t have said it any better!! I totally agree with your comment from earlier this morning!!! and the last one! Now thats “The Truth”

By Ryan

December 10, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

BC, you sound hot. You’re clearly worked up about all of this for some reason….do you wanna give it a try (again). I can show you how all the parts line up just fine…

By Kate

December 10, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

Ask Vermont and Massachussetts what kind of horrible things are happening since they started allowing gay marriage….like fewer episodes of violent crime and more home purchases. Oh, the horror.

America will look back on this treatment of homosexuals the same way we look back on segregation. We will be ashamed of ourselves.

I do have to agree, however, that economic protests do not work. There should be rioting in the streets that gay people aren’t allowed to live their lives just like everyone else.

There is too much going on in the world to be worried about the “abomination” that is gay marriage. The auto industry bailout is an abomination. The travesty in Darfur is an abomination. Gay marriage is a simple thing that, if allowed, would save a lot of time and trouble (so much money has been wasted fighting for and against it).

By the way, please don’t quote your Bible at me. The last time I checked, I still lived in America, where I have no obligation to abide by biblical laws (even if I do live in Georgia).

Reading these hateful posts makes it abundantly clear that being 48th out of 50 states in the nation in education standards really does make a difference.

By Gay everyday

December 10, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this

I say we do away with special rights. Like marriage for heterosexuals. It is a government sanctioned privilege for a bunch of people who promise to love each other until death then go out and cheat on each other and get divorced. And they often eat shellfish, which is an abomination in God’s eyes (it’s in the Bible).

By GAGAYMAN

December 10, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this

GAY IS NOT A CHOICE,WHEN I WAS AS YOUNG 5YRS OLD I NEW SOMETHING WAS DIFFERENT ABOUT ME. I WAS NEVER MOLESTED AND DATED GIRLS IN HIGH SCHOOL. WHY WOULD ANYONE CHOOSE TO BE MADE FUN OF? I AM IN FAVOR OF CIVIL UNIONS, AS FOR MARRIAGE NOT FOR ME.

By JustSayin

December 10, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

Disclaimer: Not by any means defending BC. However, anyone should be able to figure out that an imposture using BC’s handle, if you will, posted the remarks about a gay husband. Many bloggers do that to embarass writer and confuse readers.

By RL

December 10, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

To any non-gay person that would take the time to come in here to post anti-gay garbage… GET A LIFE…

Did you know many of the most ardent gay bashers are GAY THEMSELVES… and bash out of their own self hatred…

So BC, you closed case, GET A LIFE

By Gay-n-ATL

December 10, 2008 1:38 PM | Link to this

I did not call in today, as I am a nurse and people depend on me. However, that does not mean that I am not VERY proud of who I am. I am human first, just like everyone else here. I love life, just like everyone else here. I have wants and needs, just like everyone else here. I am lesbian. Get over it.

By To kitty

December 10, 2008 1:42 PM | Link to this

And I’m entitled to my opinion, Kitty.

You are a bigot. A big, fat, ugly old bigot.

To all of the ignorant bigots who thinks gays are inhuman: Why don’t you try love and peave for a change? You might find your life much more enriched. Or you can continue your messages of hate and take them straight to hell with you. God won’t take mercy on sinners such as yourselves!

By CJ

December 10, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this

While often the Bible is cited as saying being gay is wrong (Leviticus 18:22 and Leviticus 20:13), there are a number of other verses which are largely ignored but would ultimately result in burning in Hell:

“For everyone who curses his father or his mother shall surely be put to death. He has cursed his father or his mother. His blood shall be upon him.” (Leviticus 20:9)

So all of you who ever talked back to your parents, you’re going to Hell.

“If a man lies with a woman during her sickness and uncovers her nakedness, he has discovered her flow, and she has uncovered the flow of her blood. Both of them shall be cut off from her people.” (Leviticus 20:18)

Ever had sex with your wife (or trick) during her period? You’re going to Hell.

“Your male and female slaves are to come from the nations around you; from them you may buy slaves. You may also buy some of the temporary residents living among you and members of their clans born in your country, and they will become your property.” (Leviticus 25:44-45)

Funny how we’ve banned slavery, but the Bible says it’s OK. I don’t see anyone running on a platform for re-instituting slavery!

“Do not cut the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard.” (Leviticus 19:27)

Why aren’t you out protesting hair salons, scissor factories, and even our own military? Buzz cuts mean they’re all going to Hell too.

“…and the swine, though it divides the hoof, having cloven hooves, yet does not chew the cud, is unclean to you.” (Leviticus 11:7)

Let’s go protest BBQ joints!

“…do not plant your field with two kinds of seed. Do not wear material woven of two kinds of material.” (Leviticus 19:19)

All of the farmers who plant more than one crop, they’re going to burn too.

“But all in the seas or in the rivers that do not have fins and scales, all that move in the water or any living thing which is in the water, they are an abomination to you.” (Leviticus 11:10) “They (shellfish) shall be an abomination to you; you shall not eat their flesh, but you shall regard their carcasses as an abomination.” (Leviticus 11:11) “Whatever in the water does not have fins or scales; that shall be an abomination to you.” (Leviticus 11:12)

Why aren’t you protesting Red Lobster instead of gay marriage?

**The above exercise proves that anti-gay fundamentalists selectively quote the Bible. They enthusiastically and openly embrace those parts of the Bible which affirm and justify their own personal, pre-existing prejudice against gay people, while declining to become as enthusiastic about verses like the ones listed above.

After all, how many times have you heard a fundamentalist say that eating shellfish was an abomination? But they sure don’t hesitate to say it about gay people, do they? What does that tell you?**

By DLB

December 10, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this

“What about the simple word NO do you not understand. I voted for McCain for President but his suporters are not out protesting against Obama. The people have spoken. Marriage is defined as a covenant between a Man and a Woman. If the gays want civil unions, so be it, but Marriage is already defined. End of story, so let’s move on.”

The same thing blacks didn’t understand about it when they were told “No, you can’t eat in this restaurant.” No is not the end of the discussion when what you’re saying no to is equal treatment for all members of society. You say “The people have spoken” but “the people” don’t get to violate a minority’s right to equal protection. And maybe gays will accept civil unions as “end of story” when civil unions bring with them every single right, privilege and benefit that marriage does, including federal recognition and portability among all fifty states.

By White Man

December 10, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

This just in: There is no more lubrication left in the country.

By Duh

December 10, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

Do the organizers of this kind of nonense not live on the same planet and realize what’s happening to the job marketright now? To call in “gay” or anything else that means “I’m not showing up,” seems rather stupid right now.

By Donna Outlaw

December 10, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

When do we get “Call in Menopausal Day”? I believe every group has the same rights as others and if I’m sweating because of hot flashes, the air needs to be ON, I don’t care if it’s 30 degrees outside! I’m also entitled to my wild mood swings because that’s part of who I am and if I eat your chocolate, it’s because I can’t control myself from the menopausal cravings for it. My true belief for this so -called day is the same as when policepersons take off for the “Blue Flu”. There are better ways of getting your point across than to miss a day of work without pay - ESPECIALLY in THESE economic times when too many are jobless and would be glad to have money for one days pay.

By White Man

December 10, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

Get prepared to stand in the gay unemployment line.

By Chris

December 10, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

I think the only people writing here who really KNOW whether homosexuality is a choice are homosexuals. Everyone else in here who proclaims to know is speculating.

That being said, I’m gay, have many many gay friends, and FYI, it is not a choice. You can claim all day long that it is a choice but you’re wrong.

By White Man

December 10, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

My mother found out she was a lesbian and loves a black woman. Secretly, I love her black son.

By JohnF

December 10, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

Geez…the AJC sure knows how to get people to keep coming to their site…just put the word “gay” in a blog and the nuts come out of the woodworks.

I’m gay…I’m at work (I’m just taking a break right now :) ).

All of my gay friends are at work.

In fact I don’t know of anyone that laid out of work because of this.

Most of the blogs about it have crickets chirping..except this one.

You know, just because some gay people got this idea in the news doesn’t mean we are all doing it like sheep.

First of all it’s a bad idea…doesn’t accomplish anything in the places where people are the most intolerant because those places have few gay citizens anyway.

Also, being exclusionary is hardly the way to make society see us as inclusive.

And as some have posted here…the economic timing is not really poised to gain any sympathy for anyone toying with their own employment.

Just a few points…most of us don’t see the struggle for gay rights as equivalent to THE struggle for civil rights fought by african americans.

That doesn’t mean we don’t have A civil rights struggle.

As to whether being gay is a choice or not..I don’t know how anyone would defend the argument that someone chooses who they are attracted to. Sure, it is a choice to act on it, but most of us struggled with that for years before we actually did anything. Frankly, I’m glad I did..I’ve been very happy the last 17 years from my “choice”.

By KJ

December 10, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

So instead of calling in and saying “I have a frog in my throat”, do I say “I have a…

eh, nevermind.

By White Man

December 10, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

Yeah, that was me that said that.

By rick

December 10, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

For all you people condemning homosexuality, did you forget that sex before or outside of marriage is a sin according to the bible?

SOOOO, I’m assuming that you were all virgins on your wedding day or are still a virgin if not married??????????

By Seth

December 10, 2008 1:59 PM | Link to this

Here’s an exercise…

If being gay is a choice, find someone who will come out and say that he/she is choosing to live as a homosexual.

Waiting….

Waiting….

Yeah didn’t think so. End of discussion.

By Leonidas

December 10, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

Heck no. I’m happy/gay to be at work, but I’m definitely not a homosexual.

By White Man

December 10, 2008 2:04 PM | Link to this

Yeah, I said it. So what?

By jokerman

December 10, 2008 2:04 PM | Link to this

I bet no straight dudes called in sick today. There were probably a lot of flu-ridden straight guys at work today.

By White Man

December 10, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this

I want my rights too! I want to have sex with and marry my car! That is my civil right.

By White Man

December 10, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this

Correction: I want to have sex and marry a black man in my car.

By Man Lover

December 10, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this

I choose to be gay. Now what?

By B

December 10, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this

White Man, Based on your comments, I my guess is that your car would be the more intelligent one in the relationship. But it’s obviously way too good for you.

By ZP

December 10, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this

If the theory of evolution is true and we are here to procreate and the traits of the “fittest” are passed on through their greater ability to do this, how come there are still gays if it is not a choice. Wouldn’t that human trait have become extint by now due to gays inability to procreate?

Also, the ones who say God created them gay because they are attracted to other men naturally must think that murderers are born that way too so it is ok. All are tempted and all are tempted in different ways by different things, why is it ok for you to give into your tempatation to sin as it is defined in the bible. Just as many men have the temptation to have several sexual partners and sleep with every good looking girl they see, it is still not ok. Your wanting to do something does not mean that that something must be ok.

By WPWW

December 10, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

In a push for “mainstream” status/acceptance, the Sodomites (& their Marxist enablers) hijacked the word “gay”, just as they did the “rainbow”. In addition, they refer to their aggressive demands for special privileges as “rights” to in order draw similarities to civil rights, veteran’s rights, women’s rights, etc. This is done to draw sympathy from the general populace. It’s all part of a marketing/propaganda angle by these untermenschen to further downgrade American values & society.

P.S. - It’ll be interesting (& humorous) to see how many of these sodomites are axed for laying out of work today!

By Wake up

December 10, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

This has got to be the most absurd and ridiculous thing I have heard of. A day without a “gay” would be the most wonderful thing to occur; our country could finally move forward the way it should. People that are “gay”; choose to be so; you cannot choose your skin color or your ethnicity. Stop trying to compare your “issue” with that of civil rights as the two have nothing in common! The people of California made a statement loud and clear; and for once I’m proud of them for embracing the truth and moving forward!!

By willie

December 10, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

“”That being said, I’m gay, have many many gay friends, and FYI, it is not a choice. You can claim all day long that it is a choice but you’re wrong.”“

I can say the same for you. The only reason liberals have let you get this far is for your attention and vote. It is a vile and discusting behavior. It is not a sickness but a choice.

By Man Lover

December 10, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

I got a prostate exam and never turned back!

By Tim

December 10, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

I just have a quick question: If I take off half a day, will people think I am bi-sexual?

By making

December 10, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this

TO: wakeup

Are you related to Hitler? Or did your daddy marry his sister???

By chuck

December 10, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

sudo: this is a national effort, its not raining everywhere, however apparently ignorance is vibrant and alive LOL

By Chris

December 10, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

Willie,

In response to “I can say the same for you. The only reason liberals have let you get this far is for your attention and vote. It is a vile and discusting behavior. It is not a sickness but a choice.”

You cannot say the same for me. You’re not gay so you don’t know and will never know. There is no physical way you can know because you’re straight. I’m gay and it is not a choice. I was born this way, just as you were born straight. I have been this way since I was a little kid. Just because you say something, it doesn’t make it true unless you have proof. I’m the proof for myself, and there’s nothing you can do to change that.

And FYI…not all gays vote for “liberals”. Read up.

By G

December 10, 2008 2:27 PM | Link to this

So is calling in “Gay” mean that you are truly sick? Sounds like it to me.

Stop wasting our time with your movement. No one is taking away your right to have gay sex or have domestic partnership. Since 50% of marriages fail anyway, it doesn’t make any sense why you want to join the fray.

By Wake up

December 10, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this

I hate to break the news to you Willie; but it is a choice; there is no genetic malfunction;but there is a malfunction in your thinking! This is America, and you can choose to be gay if you like, and how wonderful for you that “you have many gay friends”;but for the rest of the country that is repulsed by this; please don’t try to push your insane way of thinking on us or the innocent future generations.

By Richard Simmons

December 10, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

G, that was the best point of the day!

By Chris

December 10, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this

Wakeup…actually Willie was arguing your point, but that’s beside the point. You’re wrong and you don’t even know it. Perhaps you have never studied logic or never developed that skill set. But you see, you have no proof as to your assertion. You have an opinion, while the only people who can say for sure whether it is a choice are gay people themselves.

We’ll be able to marry in time. There’s nothing you can do about that really. The truth always wins out in the end, just like it did with suffrage and slavery. Just wait. Until then, I’ll just wait around with my monogamous partner.

By Rhett

December 10, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

As a Christian, I have an opposing view to gay marriage. (I’m sure other bloggers will present several rebuttals…just remember, their views & opinions may not necessarily reflect those of our Lord & Savior, Jesus Christ or even mine.) As a Black/African American, as a woman, as a human & as an American, I believe people should be able to ask for what they want & stand up for themselves until they get it. Doesn’t mean every one will agree with them or that they’re right in their beliefs, but at least they’re courageous enough to stand up. The laws stated Blacks were less than human & women were subservient so we were viewed as asking wanting too much. I thank my GOD daily that the civil rights’ pioneers, the women’s movement innovators, etc. had the courage stand & remain persistent for they wanted…despite the hate groups that used violence & intimidation to discourage them. (Prejudice against Blacks, Jews, Catholics, immigrants & homosexuals is very common.) Again, I’m a Christian, but if I would’ve known there was a “reason” to take the day off, I would’ve called in gay myself (any reason to get some much needed sleep!).

By Rick

December 10, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

Okay. Let’s think about this for a minute. The gay people on this blog are saying that their sexuality is NOT a choice. The straight people are saying sexuality IS a choice.

Don’t you think the gay people would know whether they chose it or were born that way.

I am gay and I will assure you it is in no way a choice.

By JustMe

December 10, 2008 5:33 PM | Link to this

To all you straight people out there…do you remember the day you chose to be straight. Do you remember the exact moment you said to yourself, “Yes, I prefer to like a person of the opposite gender”. Neither do I.

By Rhett

December 10, 2008 6:35 PM | Link to this

Brian, I OPPOSE gay marriage because (1) I’m a Christian who believes the Bible is GOD’s instructions & I choose to submit to his commands even if I don’t agree with them and (2) because homosexuality has an affect on me & my children as members of society. For instance: the unmarried heterosexual who engages in unmarried sex then tries to force me to accept his lover as part of the family, come over to their lovenest, be involved in their kid’s life, force their public displays of affection on me just because I happen to be standing there & teach my child that premarital sex is okay. U get me? What you do in the privacy of your own home & don’t force society to accept for your convenience is your business. But when you begin to inflict pain on me, I have to stand up for myself to let you know you are crossing my boundaries. That’s why I oppose it & will do it openly & lawfully…to stand up for my own rights & the rights of my children. Just like non-smokers had to stand up & tell smokers not to smoke around them because the smoke is affecting the non-smokers (the smell, 2nd hand smoking, toxins, possible disease). So laws were created to set some boundaries. That’s all. I don’t care if the smoker was born that way or not. His rights stop where mine begin.

BC, don’t be blinded, sweetie. One of the smartest things Satan/the devil has done is convince people he doesn’t exist. The other is convince people that GOD is in control of everything. GOD is not the one “causing” everything to happen. GOD gave men/people dominion on the Earth…meaning we are in charge of controlling the atmosphere. GOD is trying to help us; Satan is trying to stop us. People need to decide who to listen to or be guided by so they can get to the desired destination. The only thing I can say is this is what your husband chooses to do. The signs were probably there before marriage, but he did his best to hide them or you overlooked them. (“Why” is irrelevant…why he hid them or why you overlooked them, doesn’t matter.) Problem is the truth is coming out…and I guess so is he. One thing I’ve learned is that a man cheats because he wants to…and most times, it has NOTHING to do with his wife/girlfriend. Sweetie, let him go, stop blaming yourself & move forward with your life.

By 17 Year Old Girl and Straight Ally

December 11, 2008 12:22 AM | Link to this

Firstly, I would like to kindly ask people to argue with logic, not emotions here. If we merely sling insults at one another, we will achieve nothing and fail to see each others’ points and arguments properly.

Secondly, as I see it, the fundamental genesis of our disagreement is in a dispute over religion. What I have seen many people on this forum express is that Christianity regards homosexuality as evil. Perhaps that is true. Perhaps Christianity does say that. Such matters are open to individual interpretation, as are all matters of faith.

Those things that do not allow for individual interpretation, however, are the principles upon which our nation and government were founded, Lockean principles stating that the government must represent the will of the majority while never ceasing to protect the rights of the minority. The majority may pass whatever legislation it sees fit so long as it does not infringe upon the fundamental, natural rights of any minority group within the state.

Here in the USA, homosexuals are a minority group that, according to Locke, must be protected by the government and must be granted equal rights and protection to all other citizens. As the majority of Americans are free to marry whomever they so desire and love, so too should homosexuals.

Perhaps you believe that homosexuality is wrong. Perhaps you would not choose to accept your own sexual orientation if you were gay, but whatever you hold spiritually true for yourself, you cannot enforce such beliefs upon another member of society these beliefs remove fundamental rights, which you daily enjoy, from the minority.

Furthermore, even if you choose to disregard my argument about Locke and the rights of minorities, I will approach the debate from a Christian perspective so that I can begin from the same page as those people with whom I disagree and see if I can persuade them, you, to share my interpretation of the Christian faith.

Are there passages in the Bible that criticize homosexuality? Perhaps. Once again, individual interpretation is at play here. But what is more fundamental, intrinsic, and valuable to Christianity: one or two passages written by men who followed Jesus, or the general religious principles laid out by Jesus himself?

I would argue, I suppose you could disagree, that the fundamental principles of Jesus’ preaching are more important than passages written by those who followed and attempted to interpret Him. If you step back and regard the spirit of Christianity, the main message, the whole idea, you will see a religion based upon a principle of love. More than anything else, Jesus taught compassion, love, and acceptance of all people. Do you think Jesus would regard homosexuals as less than any other people? Do you think he would refuse them rights that he would grant others? Surely not. Surely, such a man, a son of God, would see beyond this pettiness and recognize people as whole, unique individuals, not mere cardboard cutouts defined by stereotypes and sexual orientations. Surely, he would accept these people exactly as they are, and he would allow them to love and marry whomever they wished.

So, please, be you homophobic, against gay rights, or against gay marriage in any way, carefully consider whichever of my above arguments appeals to you most, that of John Locke or that of Jesus Christ, and understand that a person ought to have certain fundamental rights within a society, and that the right to love and to marry whomever one so chooses is one of these inalienable rights to be granted to all people, heterosexuals and homosexuals alike.

Thank you for taking the time to read this rather long and wordy response. I hope that at least a few dissenters will seriously consider what I have written and question their deeply held prejudices. At the least, I hope I have made you think.

By ResearchStupidity

December 11, 2008 6:57 AM | Link to this

BC, your comment about not seeing any gay animals is absolutely 100% inaccurate. Maybe you haven’t seen any personally just like you probably have never seen a public school classroom. Here a just a few examples of some research done on GAY animals.

“JERUSALEM — The London newspaper The Independent reports that a pair of gay vultures at the Jersualem Zoo have shown the world just how talented and caring gay adoptive parents can be.”

Homosexual and bisexual behavior are widespread in the animal kingdom: a 1999 review by researcher Bruce Bagemihl shows that homosexual behavior, has been observed in close to 1500 species, ranging from primates to gut worms, and is well documented for 500 of them.

“virtually every bonobo chimpanzees are bisexual, which may also indicate that sexuality, may simply act as a form of social bonding for animals, other than the singular view of procreation as purported by conservatives.”

By Caucasian Manager

December 11, 2008 8:41 AM | Link to this

i dont like gays or blacks. i am in the majority. that is a reality people, deal with it.

By Say what?

December 11, 2008 1:41 PM | Link to this

Everyone is talking about the Bible not saying anything about Gays and Lesbians. Aren’t they called Sodomites?

By Daniele

December 12, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

What happened to the “moderation” on this post? It is never ok to spew hatred, no matter what direction it is in. Let’s keep the discussion relevant, and stop attacking individuals and/ or groups of people.

By WTF

January 28, 2009 3:46 PM | Link to this

I just found this blog and I can’t believe I actually started to read it. I can’t believe how hateful people can be. You people should be ashamed of yourselves. Of course you’re not though, because you’re hiding behind your computer. Come down to Midtown, stand on the corner of 10th and Piedmont and repeat everything you guys have written here. I doubt any of you would do it. Grow up already. You’re just embarassing yourselves with your ignorance.

By WTF

January 28, 2009 3:48 PM | Link to this

I just found this blog and I can’t believe I actually started to read it. I can’t believe how hateful people can be. You people should be ashamed of yourselves. Of course you’re not though, because you’re hiding behind your computer. Come down to Midtown, stand on the corner of 10th and Piedmont and repeat everything you guys have written here. I doubt any of you would do it. Grow up already. You’re just embarassing yourselves with your ignorance.